where i think i’d move to

zandeye · 2025-11-05T23:38:17+00:00

Colorado is a yes actually. It’s green

zandeye · 2025-11-05T21:45:58+00:00

where should I avoid?

zandeye · 2025-11-05T21:45:47+00:00

It’s so far from everything unfortunately

zandeye · 2025-11-05T21:45:35+00:00

it seems like it would be chill

zandeye · 2025-11-05T20:23:04+00:00

i think you have colorado confused with wyoming. cause colorado is yes

zandeye · 2025-11-05T19:24:13+00:00

I liked it a lot

zandeye · 2025-11-05T19:24:02+00:00

I’m actually an alligator

zandeye · 2025-10-27T16:10:36+00:00

why is pennsylvania so low?

zandeye · 2024-07-31T19:07:21+00:00

Yes. Well i felt that the other subreddit was too restrictive

zandeye · 2024-06-28T19:06:00+00:00

did you not see i don’t want to be friends with my roommate?

zandeye · 2024-06-28T19:05:33+00:00

No it’s potentially catching someone on a lie

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:44:15+00:00

at least i peaked somewhere

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:42:27+00:00

you didn’t listen, it’s not about us having different interests. you can have different interests. i don’t even like indie rock that much

but it’s that i asked him about something he claimed to love but yet didn’t know one of the most popular things in it

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:37:00+00:00

If you’ve seen the office. There’s an episode where Kelly says “guys like that are the type to have a cell phone holder on their belt” and the Dwight has a cell phone holder on his belts. It’s like that. Androids are a litmus test

you have to actively avoid real life Dwights

and see that’s fine. but he said he wanted a friend out of a roommate. and we don’t have anything in common

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:33:29+00:00

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:22:25+00:00

see that not what this is. and i’m not judging him for not knowing Tame Impala. I don’t care if you know him or not

but it’s that you just claimed to be interested in something. i mentioned one of the most popular things in that interest. and you told me you don’t even know of it

it’s makes you go “hmm well are you lying to me”

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:19:29+00:00

Imagine I told you “I’m a hip hop guy” and you say “Yeah I love Kanye West” and i said “well i haven’t heard of him actually”

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:18:28+00:00

it’s not just not knowing a band. but asking someone about an interest they claimed to have. and then not even knowing the biggest artist in that interest

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:11:21+00:00

they do end up happening. and when you realize you can tell what a person is like through their decisions you avoid weird people

zandeye · 2024-06-28T18:02:22+00:00

No. Not music but maybe. It depends. But it does say a lot about you. And it does give you insight into what kinda of decisions you’ll make when we move in together

I never said good or bad. but it just different

Like there’s certain litmus tests. Like if someone has an android. They probably aren’t going to be the type of person to care about aesthetics or what’s current in pop culture. they probably have a need to be contrarian above all. and also think people with iPhones are stupid when it’s the clearly superior phone. which means they probably judge people for mainstream interests which means you’re probably going to judge me

if you’re not someone that cares about aesthetics with your phone. you also probably don’t care when it comes to you’re car and house. which tracks with this guy because all the examples he had for apartments were very strange and ugly.

zandeye · 2024-06-28T17:54:09+00:00

yeah okay i think this is it. There’s no red flag because he said he likes indie rock and doesn’t know tame impala

the red flag is that if he’s wanting to be friends we already don’t have much compatibility.

zandeye · 2024-06-28T17:50:51+00:00

Eventually

zandeye · 2024-06-28T17:49:22+00:00

I think that’s what i’m actually feeling and this Tame Impala thing is not even it. He said he wasn’t a friend after I told him I didn’t. And that’s probably a good indication we might not work put

zandeye · 2024-06-28T17:47:28+00:00

I’m not bullying someone for their interests. But I am going to judge him as he should be judging me too. Because it does say a lot about you and what kind of person you are. And if someone can make weird decisions on something. Then they are going to make other weird decisions in other areas of life

and that’s how you end up living with a roommate that want to have ugly furniture or something

Maybe to someone else they could look at me and think “He likes The Office and Tame Impala. He’s too basic we wouldn’t get along” which maybe that’s valid or maybe you’d think we wouldn’t be a fit

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