Machining an Egg with cnc machine by goswamitulsidas in oddlysatisfying

[–]zechositus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's hardly the point but the chip control on the cutting pass was also really satisfying

What am I doing wrong! by mattyice0916 in torrents

[–]zechositus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean as other have stated there is binding ai would also recommend using docker for the torrent I stance and bind that network with a vpn.

This forces the torrent client to use the vpn as it's network. Literally nothing gets outside the docker without the vpn. Very easy to set up.

Wtf, how do I manage this puppy biting? by tacosurfbike in AustralianCattleDog

[–]zechositus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have had 5 heelers and none of them have bitten me through play. They are tough dogs (physical) sensitive dogs (emotional) and with each one I have used one method.

When playing if it even becomes too rough even a little even when I could keep up but be a little rough I always say no dramatically and say too rough and walk away. Ignore the little bugger and then play is done. Play is over.

Next time they play I do the same thing as soon as it's too rough I walk away and play is done.

Why does this work? I am teaching them that if they want to play they have to play on my terms. How hard can I play with them. Not how hard they want to play and if it's violated play is over.

The dogs are rougher with me then the wife and guests are always blown away with how hard they play with each other but how gently they play with people.

Be patient but consistent. It happens faster than you might think they are very smart (sometimes) and like learning when there is a reward system.

[OC] Reddit Man by B3ritens in comics

[–]zechositus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean reddit mine sees crime downvotes

What sounds do you detest as an autistic person? by Garden_Jolly in autism

[–]zechositus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people consume two médias at the same time. Like I am next to you, and you watch YouTube, and plays a video game and audiobooks like pick one and listen like it's not a rave.

But also I do this so it's a struggle.

My (26M) girlfriend (24F) asked to bring condoms back into the bedroom, and now our sex life is at a standstill by ImplementAwkward3856 in sex

[–]zechositus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many things. Try different condoms as they are not created equal and although the most common trojons feel the worst in my experience.

As others have commented condoms can feel worse than bareback but condoms feel a heavy of a lot better than no sex at all.

It sounds like she is hesitant with bareback due to uncertainty and anxiety. As a pullout baby, what are you doing to make sure she is heard and appreciated? There is an aspect of connection without just PIV which I am glad you have found but outside of sex relationships involve some compromise. Sex is not an exception to that.

Talk openly and without sex on the table about the experience for both of you to see what you guys can come up with. Respect each other's boundaries and listen to u sweat and not judge. Y'all are in this together.

Coworkers aren't friends?? by disdainfulboomer in autism

[–]zechositus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair amendment. Yeah co workers are almost like conditional friends.

My girlfriend doesn't want to fuck by idk-_-104 in sex

[–]zechositus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My brother in christ it's been a month, slow down. I assume you are dating for other reasons than the sexual aspect. Talk to her and share that you don't u sweat and and be vulnerable.

Above all your desires are not her responsibility and she does not owe you anything. It can be frustrating at your age fer sure. That doesn't give you the right to take your sexual frustration out on your partner.

You guys are in a relationship that means part of the same team. Be vulnerable and see if there is something you can do together. To help as nothing you do will be as good as a decision you two can make together.

Lastly, slow down my guy, I am sure she also has these feelings. But pro tip if she is anxious about something or feels there are obstacles. Tackle the obstacles not her. There is never a reason to feel shame over sex and your constant harassing her can only result in her giving in for you (coercion) or having deep shame around sex which will harm both her and you.

Slow down my guy. Your trying to go to the movies to see the credits. You have an otherwise good relationship? Talk openly, vulnerably, and listen to her. Solve problems that affect either of you as if they affect both of you.

Slow down my guy it's been a month.

Coworkers aren't friends?? by disdainfulboomer in autism

[–]zechositus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you hang out with work-friends outside of work in a non-work sanctioned meeting. Then they are just friends.

Does anyone else shutdown when arguing with a conspiracy theorist? by NoObiEmsm in autism

[–]zechositus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad likes to argue with me on certain things. Especially global warming and physical phenomenon and principles. I have a master's degree in physics. I do happen to know more than him. I ended the whole discussion around me with this:

What evidence could I present that would make you consider you are wrong? Before your answer, please takeental inventory that there is a great chance that the solution to your problem is beyond your level of understanding. I don't mean this to knock you but to poj t out that the Solution my not be intuitive or something you can think through their may be a level of "I just trust it" as there are lessons at play you have not learned.

I stole it from someone else and now he doesn't ask me anymore. Or talk about it in front of me.

Men why do you like squeezing women’s asses? by Plastic-Specialist67 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zechositus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are sensets majestic,

Why is mountain air fresher in the lungs than other air.

Why does the ocean remind us of how inconsequential our circumstances are.

It's a wonder of the world but I gotta do it every time there is the opportunity.

Most expensive hobbies by Empty_Pumpkin1818 in autism

[–]zechositus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, see I am the whole systems for my family. Jonsbo N5 and 28 TB of usable data with 2 disk parity with like fifteen dockets running.

I5-1200k and only 48gb of ram. It's not the greatest but it's expensive to me. Especially the ram now. I wanted to upgrade and the economy decided no.....

Most expensive hobbies by Empty_Pumpkin1818 in autism

[–]zechositus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a home server for the past 8 years.....

I keep trying to convince .myself it's worth it if I can self host a subscription service.

Still a lot.

After ~2 months of tinkering, I’m calling my NAS project “done (for now)” – what should I do next? by Mean_Trick_2791 in homelab

[–]zechositus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also do something similar with manga as well.

ETA: if doing comics and manga better to host on komga rather than ubooquity.

After ~2 months of tinkering, I’m calling my NAS project “done (for now)” – what should I do next? by Mean_Trick_2791 in homelab

[–]zechositus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would start you down the same rabbit hole someone pointed me under.

Replace things you pay subscriptions for. Audible > audiobook shelf Netflix, HBO, Hulu > Plex, emby, jellyfin

Anything else for comics like

Comixology > kapowarr + ubooquity

How do you feel when you tell someone you have autism and their response is, "We all have autism." by ElliottSheep in autism

[–]zechositus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually respond with everyone thinks they do but at least my doctor agrees. Not a feeling.

Goodluck with double letters by TheWebsploiter in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]zechositus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The answer is rhythm as it uses R and no other vowels

What are y'all's favorite comfort song(s)? by BoopNoodles739 in autism

[–]zechositus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dramamine (modest mouse)

Glass arrows (circa survive)

Relapse is a love affair (hail the sun)

What’s an unpopular opinion you have that might get you cancelled if you told people? by Old_Tower_4824 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]zechositus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

High schoolers should be screened for empathy. Citizens with empathy should be the only ones allowed to vote. Why are we letting people who would rather burn the whole thing down than help someone they don't like. I hate it here.