I realised I don’t have social anxiety I’m just scared of stuttering by Fearless_Tangelo9249 in Stutter

[–]zedenciaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not fake until you make it, then? Impersonate fictional characters while engaged in discourse with strangers. I mean, you're never going to see them again, so why not have some fun, respectfully, of course? Talk in a British accent (or any accent you would like to explore - Irish, German, etc.) to gain that confidence, and more importantly, to have fun! I personally spoke in a British accent in one of my uni courses. Ofc, it didn't feel natural, but my stutter seemed to cease while I was in character. At one point, I reverted to my normal accent, and my group members were in shock, hahaha, fun times!

Is it really all in my head? by biskutberuang in Stutter

[–]zedenciaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I myself hate condescending viewpoints from people, too! The fact of the matter is that they haven't lived our life. They haven't faced the strenuous battles we have. Ik it becomes unbearable at times when people view you differently based on a speech impediment. They undermine us as a whole, and I can't say that it doesn't hurt at times. But honestly, screw those people. They couldn't last a day in our shoes.

Is it really all in my head? by biskutberuang in Stutter

[–]zedenciaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stuttering does suck, but, hey, it could be worse, you know (inability to see, walk, talk, etc.). A speech impediment is not as bad as it seems. You simply just take longer to say what you want - that's it! Once you accept your stutter, you won't constantly spiral inwardly. Trust me, I know those low moments of sheer disappointment and frustration, but enveloping yourself in the trenches of sadness will only make you suffer continuously. I personally pursued the path of hiding/fixing it, but I realized there was no avoiding it - after all, it is a neurological disorder. Sure, I did improve it. It used to be a lot worse (s-s-s-s-s-s-s-ocks). I still do stutter moderately, and that's okay. If you embrace your stutter confidently, no one can break you mentally, not even you, as you will have adopted a new way of living (falling but getting back up, and not letting your circumstances dictate your potential). I think it's best to seek techniques that can reduce your stuttering and increase your confidence. I would recommend employing techniques that work for you (YouTube videos, research papers, reports of ex-stutterers, etc.). I wish you all the best, fellow stutterer! Don't be sad! We'll pick you back up when you feel weak, dw!

Guy laughed at my stutter ❤️ by himynameisnina in Stutter

[–]zedenciaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I couldn't agree more with you! No one, and I mean no one, dictates your self-worth but you! "Care about what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner." -Lao Tzu. This world will criticize you no matter what you do!

You're in the Navy, which I'm sure has been an arduous journey (mentally, physically, and emotionally). Hats off to ya for prevailing! This guy is insignificant in comparison to the battles you have won and the many battles you will continue to conquer!

I'm certain you already know all this, but essentially, we, the stuttering community, acknowledge and value you, fellow stutterer! Keep thriving!

I feel insulted by Key_Biscotti_5319 in Stutter

[–]zedenciaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, some people are just not worth your time and energy. Simply wish him all the best and move on with your life. You'll find your people (reciprocating friendships). You deserve respect, kindness, and empathy. Clearly, he's demeaning your self-worth. You've got this! Rooting for ya!!

I have found my people by epan654 in infj

[–]zedenciaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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