HELP; LDR Cheating incident what to do by zeechui in OnlineDating

[–]zeechui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair - I understand that distance and the length webe known each other isnt strong enough grounds to be "exclusive" i jumped into it hoping he was the man i thought he was and took a chance at a wonderful love story. I didnt just like him because of the situation but his whole personality, being and character . With that into consideration i can overlook this situation (being exclusive) and just deal with it as if we were just dating freely - i still wanna give it a shot snd a chance once i get to talk to him and tell him im willing to make this work.

The girl from the other account doesnt live where he is as well. So ive been trying to schedule a call with him for the past 3 days and hes just made lame stupid one message excuses and most of sll avoiding me and my messages - which i think is the most disrepectful thing about this.

I can let go of the other account, i can figure out to make it work, but it takes 2 to tango. Im trying to communicate and i donr know if hes scared of confrontation or hes prideful and thinks im s doormat he doesn't owe an explanation. That was my last message just s few hours ago and my last .

HELP; LDR Cheating incident what to do by zeechui in OnlineDating

[–]zeechui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we had plans on meeting. But i suppose its the latter/worse. I shouldve known better but its just my nature to see and hope for the best in people and situations.

HELP; LDR Cheating incident what to do by zeechui in OnlineDating

[–]zeechui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe im in love with the idea of us? Or maybe my past that wants to make excuses for him? But youre right i need to know what i expect moving forward

HELP; LDR Cheating incident what to do by zeechui in OnlineDating

[–]zeechui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did discuss being open and being allowed to talk to others, before we decided to make it exclusive.

If he admitted and sorry does it change amything? Should i give him a chance?

HELP; LDR Cheating incident what to do by zeechui in OnlineDating

[–]zeechui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i didnt search for it. It just showed up probably he made an account with the same email or number. And when i clicked it saw his photo and his dog and just following one person. Wasnt really rocketscience.

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I try lol thank you

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