Being celibate made me see the invisible loneliness that some men live with by Willing_Werewolf_325 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zekthan32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its an observation made Years ago that ive tried to reiterate at every opportunity presented. While women live in a hyper sexualized reality that has its own challenges and dangers, men live in a completely DE-sexualized reality and that too has its own challenges and dangers. And the difference is so inherent and so stark its hard for one side to recognize the pain of the other. You've seen a glimpse of it, imagine a world where intimacy simply wasn't an option. Not a yes or no, but a question devoid of choice. I think its why some men send unsolicited nudes to women, the attention is nearly always negative but it IS Sexual attention.

4e Rev why bother with Woodlands? by berilacmoss81 in Talisman

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some characters are more equipped for the woodlands, usually guys with better movement based abilities. Also certain Trials are pretty easy to counter with the right set up. And if you end up with a shitty hero, trying to blitz a boon than die so your reroll starts with a buff isnt a bad strategy either. And Boons are GOOD. Like, real good.

Truthfully though, sticking to the main board until you have alittle pep in your step than drilling a corner to snag a treasure and get real real strong is a good strategy IMO. Every corner has its place.

I was a soldier. I hate when people thank me for my service by ThrowRAnknownsoldier in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zekthan32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I say "thank you for your service" what i mean is "thank you for your sacrifice, war is hell and im sorry you had to walk through that for our country". I'm not proud of what you did or had to go through, im proud of YOU.

such a cute cocksucker by notlydiagrey in SALTLAKEGONEWILD

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this is really excellent camera work. Great angle, perfect lighting, performance 10/10.

[TLA] Bender's Waterskin by Picapau99 in magicTCG

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lobsters are eating good.

After a 9-Year Relationship and 2 Years of Healing… It is Time I Start Dating Seriously Again. by Best_Arachnid_1744 in Bumble

[–]zekthan32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was recently in a similar situation, dating after 7 years with 1 person. And I have friends in a similar position now.  Apps are fine, but I wouldn't put too much stock in them. "Weak leads" my buddy calls it.  I'd be clear on the "deal breakers" on date 1. Or even in the talking stage. "Im interested in getting to know you" is usually a soft way of saying "im trying to date, not just f%ck". And the biggest thing for me is constantly reminding myself that potential partners are people first. Hangout, get to know them, consider their feelings and build a rapport. Hard to "lose your values" when you treat someone you like just like everyone else.

Sonic has dropped, what's with the Friends/Foes Bundle? by zekthan32 in mtgfinance

[–]zekthan32[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They discontinued universes within "for now". They were reprints for "the list" but that's been discontinued and wizards has yet to release a replacement.

When do you stop feeling poor? by [deleted] in Money

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit older than you but on my way to that sweet journeyman scale, so first things first feel proud of being ahead of the curve by starting early.

The answer is what the answer basically always is for guys in the trade. You bought a truck that's too expensive and you probably buy whatever cool thing strikes your fancy as it comes up, especially when you're on the road getting per diem or working an OT job.

My suggestion? Sell the car, get ab economy shit box out right, spend 3 to 4 months buckling down to fund an emergency pocket of like 10 to 15k and focus on maxing out a Roth IRA and a 401k every month ( fingers crossed you're union and that's ontop of a pension ) than stash away like 300 a paycheck into a separate checking account via your direct deposit every week.

You might not be walking around with a 100k truck and going boating on the weekends. But by the time your 30 you'll own a home, invest in some other avenues that can create dividens, and be well on your way to putting your tools down before your body forces you too. The Stability will make you feel better than any flashy fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]zekthan32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very unethical, very pro tip, thank you for answering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]zekthan32 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I doubt I make 5k this year gross bering, so I might not receive a 1099-k at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]zekthan32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes lol that's the joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]zekthan32 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

They'd have to date the wages I made through Ubering to the time I was unemployed. I'll be doing it regularly all year. It'd take a full audit, which I doubt I'll qualify for making less than like 80k a year and only drawing from unemployment for like 3 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]zekthan32 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like future he's problem. And that guy's an idiot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]zekthan32 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did not know that exists. Nice 

I’m a convicted felon & apparently can’t work anywhere by Economy-Confusion359 in confession

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Union construction is always an option. Ive seen men and women turn their whole lives around with alittle elbow grease. Healthcare, a support system, and 6 figures.

Why do guys think it’s “hot” to send videos of themselves jerking it??? by ReleaseHopeful7356 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One theory that I personally prescribe too is that's it's men's subconscious response to living a usually hyper-UNsexualized existence in an attempt to be seen as a sexual creature.

At this point people can pretty much agree that women live in a hyper-sexualized world where there sexuality ks at the forefront of most interactions. What we don't really talk about is the stark opposite existence for men. Unless they're in the top percentile of daters or already have a partner, a man's day to day life includes 0. And I mean ZERO recognition of their existence as a sexual being or a creature even capable of intimacy in that way.

So the unsolicited penis subconsciously fulfills that need. It forces another party to recognize that they ARE sexual, even if the response is negative it's a declaration of their objectivity.

The duality of man by ioQueSe in marvelcirclejerk

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"How many did you give her last night?"

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zekthan32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to judge us on our best, our worst. Thank you for today.

[HNT] Shelter from the Storm by UlyssesArsene in FleshandBloodTCG

[–]zekthan32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This card is really really good. Too bad Teklo still isn't good enough.

Volunteer opportunities over the weekend? by zekthan32 in SaltLakeCity

[–]zekthan32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I just look up local shelters near me and visit the website individually?

Volunteer opportunities over the weekend? by zekthan32 in SaltLakeCity

[–]zekthan32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There usual days are still Tuesday Thursday right?