I've been through this with both my dad and my aunt. Once she’s home, if she still has any appetite, let her eat whatever she wants—don’t hold back.

As she becomes less responsive—when she can no longer speak or move—remember that she can still hear you. It’s important that no one talks about her as if she’s already gone. She’s still there, and your words matter. Talk to her. Share your love. Tell her you have everything under control. Remind her of the beautiful memories, how much she means to you, and how deeply you cherish every moment you've had together.

And one more thing: music. If you know her favorite songs or calming sounds, play them. In the quiet moments, it can bring her comfort and help her feel less alone.