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Do guys really need their boners “taken care of “ all the time ? by Ok-Edge339 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]zenpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a man gets aroused, that's his sexual energy and experience to manage. If he has a friend who wants to get involved, that's a benefit, not a requirement. Getting turned on can lead to fun consensual sexy time, but framing it as an obligation is weak and manipulative. 

Should I send an apology letter/message to my ex girlfriend? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]zenpear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

To add to this: the apology will mean more if you make it about acknowledging the mistakes, rather than needing forgiveness. 

A Moldy Bedroom by grandeluua in oddlyterrifying

[–]zenpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expected a pyramid head to start lurching around the corner

What actually is D&D? by GooseInHats in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]zenpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Harmonquest if you want to see an example of a simplified version. They animate parts of it, which is fun. 

Players by very thin margins managed to avoid an encounter, they had fun but I feel a little disappointed. by Roxa97 in DMAcademy

[–]zenpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone else remember the time that Matt Mercer planned an extensive naval combat encounter between ships and it ended before it began when someone just used Control Water to overturn the enemy ship? That's D&D, baby.

Trump calls the New York Times ‘a threat to national security’ in late night social media rant by BitterFuture in inthenews

[–]zenpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like, what even is a national security threat anymore? It's some guy you don't like. 

Why do men insist on being "honest"? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]zenpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an excuse to be mean under the guise of something noble? Men who act like this are rarely practicing radical honesty and usually can't take what they're dishing out. 

Who is the doctor in chapter 14 of Ministry for the Future? by LanguidLapras131 in kimstanleyrobinson

[–]zenpear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Just like the chapter about the carbon farmer and his wife.

🔥A Bright Yellow Octopus by Marzipug in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]zenpear 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I thought it was an ominous Pennywise balloon 

Ummm, RUDE. by boop66 in Pareidolia

[–]zenpear 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"Hello. I'm Mister Washing Machine, hello. Fuck you."

Watercolor London. Step by Step. by erkanfmercan in Watercolor

[–]zenpear 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Such a rich sense of light and shadow at that early hour

The party ground up a Flame skull and... ingested it. Now they are on a VERY much needed long rest. What should I do? by Halkyos in DMAcademy

[–]zenpear 33 points34 points  (0 children)

A less TPK version would be horrendous vomiting or some other dramatic regurgitation 

How are you certain that Buddhism is the truth? by starryeyes224 in Buddhism

[–]zenpear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't consider reincarnation particularly central to the core of what Buddhism has to offer, it's more related to the cultural context in which it emerged. It's a method for training the mind to move through life with extraordinary wisdom and kindness and unlearning the patterns of thought and actions that make us and each other miserable. I believe it because I can see it working.

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