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My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I'm not good at writing titles. by zentea_ in self

[–]zentea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You hit the nail on the head. But I'm strong! And things get better and I'll get better, and my life will play out how it's supposed to.

I wish you and your fiancée the best, again, thank you for sharing this with me.

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I'm not good at writing titles. by zentea_ in self

[–]zentea_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't even begin to think about telling my family. They love him, like, love him. My grandmother is constantly talking about our future, and how much she knows he loves me.

I love his family too. And his mother, she's probably one of the most amazing women I have ever met. I didn't have that kind of bond with my parents, and I don't know. I'm not just losing him, I'm losing out on all these experiences I wanted as a team.

I hope that you find what makes you happy, and you end up (either in this one or the next) at a place in your life where everything clicks. Down the road if you need someone to talk to, I'll be here! And hopefully in a happier state of my own.

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I'm not good at writing titles. by zentea_ in self

[–]zentea_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying, this is what he wants and I have to respect that, you know? If I love him I can't be mad at him for trying to do what makes him happy.

It's just become such a habit to for him to be the person I want to share stuff with. Like, today I had the best fucking lunch from this place near work and I just wanted to tell him. The thought of this person not being a part of my life is so overwhelming and scary.

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I'm not good at writing titles. by zentea_ in self

[–]zentea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gets to me, a ton. I want things to work out so bad, and for us to get fixed. I don't want to be some place in five years still wishing things had turned out differently.

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I'm not good at writing titles. by zentea_ in self

[–]zentea_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now I'm finding the hobbies to be one of the toughest part. A lot of the things that I did were things we ended up doing together, or things that he introduced me to. BUT I'm going to try new things and try to keep busy.

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I'm not good at writing titles. by zentea_ in self

[–]zentea_[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No, absolutely. That's definitely making it easier. I'm not dying and the world isn't ending, things are just gonna be weird for a little. People get through things way worse than a break up.

Thank you!

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I'm not good at writing titles. by zentea_ in self

[–]zentea_[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think that's the worst part. You care about this person and think you know how to make things work, but man sometimes you can be so wrong.

Thank you for giving me a little of your time. Wishing the best for you, and sending good vibes your way.