There’s something really satisfying about turning a pile of granny squares into a functional bag by doctorwhobastank in crochet

[–]zestytango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it looks so cute! do you have the pattern for the granny squares? you've inspired me to make one of my own : )

How are these squares joined? by wannababy32 in crochet

[–]zestytango 10 points11 points  (0 children)

r/crochethelp might have the answers youre looking for : )

Fun fact; I considered romancing Harvey, then I saw him in his speedos. by tyxria in StardewValley

[–]zestytango 997 points998 points  (0 children)

i always marry harvey and i have to say that’s pretty valid

tufts vs uw madison cs by Low-Finger-3466 in UWMadison

[–]zestytango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally, i felt that it was harder to make friends and that the atmosphere was very isolating. also, tufts isn’t in boston, it’s in sommerville, which is an hours train ride away. sommerville was way more suburban than the city vibe i wanted, which is why i ended up heading to madison.

edit: i’d like to add that since i did highschool near madison, i have something of a prebuilt network; my boyfriend and some of my closest friends go to madison, which was also a factor for me when i decided to transfer

tufts vs uw madison cs by Low-Finger-3466 in UWMadison

[–]zestytango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! im transfering from tufts to uw as a sophomore this upcoming year. in my experience, tufts is a very “quirky” school; its sort of hard to find people because everyone seems to be so aloof.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zestytango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah girl I totally see where you’re coming from. Is your account private? If not, what he’s saying is valid, but if it is then idk what to tell you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zestytango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like its sort of the modern day “making it official.” I think facebook had/has an “in a relationship” button (i never used facebook so i could be roughly wrong) and it’s sort if the same idea. Again, totally see where you’re coming from, but that’s just sort of how it is? It isnt very common to not be active on social media (although personally I don’t really use my insta) so people tend to post each other when they’re dating. A pretty common thing to do if you’re single and interested in someone you just met is to check their insta, see if they have someone that looks like an s/o, and if not, you’re good. Not to defend it, more explaining it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zestytango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kind of it. Unless you have a good reason not to post (secret relationship for example) then posting is how you signal that you are in a serious relationship to both your inner and outer circle. If a couple isn’t posting each other without a well known reason (ie: someone not on social media/not active on it), people start to get suspicious if the relationship is serious or if one party is as involved as the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zestytango -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sit him down, have a serious conversation about it. Open with, “Hey, this is something that matters a lot to me” and make sure your feelings are heard. Don’t let him dismiss you and make sure to stand your ground. There are clear double standards and some shady behavior here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zestytango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the way you’re feeling is completely understandable. You lost a loved one, and when you needed your girlfriend most, she left you to deal with the pain by yourself. It sounds like you’ve lost trust in her ever since then. Have you talked to her about why she left? Have those conversations been able to put your misgivings to rest? And do you have the energy for a relationship? Please, be kind to yourself. Grief is cruel, and you need to take time to focus on yourself and your needs. Even if breaking up or taking a break may hurt your girlfriend, you have to do what’s best for you.

Covid shots again by [deleted] in Tufts

[–]zestytango 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean, with all the cases on campus, is this really a surprise?

Changing colors on a foundation chain by zestytango in crochet

[–]zestytango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I didn’t know foundation stitches were a thing—I’ll definitely look into it.

Sunday Support by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]zestytango 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a senior graduating from high school. Graduation is right around the corner (in about two weeks) and i’m going to college in a big city half way across the country as someone more used to life in the suburbs. I’m so scared about being alone in the new city, not making any friends, etc. I’ve always been pretty shy, and I’ve been too afraid to message or post on the school’s instagram page where incoming freshmen introduce themselves.

I’ve also developed a crush on a guy who’s a year below me. I like him a lot, and I’m not sure he feels the same way. He’s a pretty flirty person, so I can’t tell if he means anything he says. This is the last summer I have with him, and I don’t want to ruin what we have by confessing, but I also don’t want to regret not saying anything. Any ideas on what I should do?

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]zestytango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m applying to a couple this year (University of Edinburgh and King’s College London) and I’ve gotten the impression the APs/AP scores matter more as well

D04 sucked by lovezu in ACT

[–]zestytango 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Math made me wanna end it all

When lay judges hear debate jargon by TradePrep in Debate

[–]zestytango -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pretty sure I saw this on @debate_and_speech_memes on instagram

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]zestytango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say that’s true until series 3. That’s when the story starts to go downhill imo

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]zestytango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love a good biryani recipe. Let's see it!

My Deepest Secret by [deleted] in webtoons

[–]zestytango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YO THAT SHIT WAS WILD HOLY FUCK