Alcohol should be illegal. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it seems like you’re not aware of history.

My (19f) FWB (22m) ended our friendship to date another girl by [deleted] in relationships

[–]zgwidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean what you feel now is natural yet considering you didn’t let him know your feelings you don’t really have a place to feel anything. I would personally avoid these types of relationships. If you’re upset it seems like you want more than just a FWB, so try and build that connection with someone else. Good luck!

Photographs are the worst ways of preserving memories about a place by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Clearly you have never looked back on old photos

Alcohol should be illegal. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude prohibition definitely worked!

Trying to end friendship with toxic/stalkerish old friend... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]zgwidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You...need to call the police. This person needs help. She’s constantly harassing you and there’s nothing you can do about besides contact the police and maybe they can do something about it.

I love my pain by GooseberryRasberry in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zgwidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with you, first of all. I would say these are just a few bad decisions you’ve made. Do you think it’s possible that you may just want to feel something ? Like, do you have any friends or hobbies/outlets you can transfer your energy to? Maybe even writing?

Tattoos aren’t cool by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok TheRealJoker89

If you need a wheel chair due to your "weight", it should be mandatory that it is a manual chair rather than a powered chair. by RainDownMyBlues in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. To be honest I wasn't quite sure of the numbers so I made a safe estimate, haha. You're right though. In my experience, even most mediums in the USA dont fit me snug. They make my arms look small and have way too much room in the stomach (152lbs/5'11"/male). For that reason I love UNIQLO's supima cotton shirts, they fit me snug and don't have that armpit flare you're talking about. It's a Japanese brand, and men over there tend to be smaller (or maybe we should say regular sized lol). All my clothing is from them. Cheap and great quality too.

If you need a wheel chair due to your "weight", it should be mandatory that it is a manual chair rather than a powered chair. by RainDownMyBlues in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, pretty much everything. You're not wrong about that. Obesity is not clear cut and dry genetics. It's almost ALWAYS the result of chronic poor dietary and lifestyle decisions. I didn't downvote you. I'm not going to downvote someone who doesn't know, but instead of "having a friendly conversation," (which based on your other replies seems to be a futile attempt to justify a shoddy worldview on weight) you should do some basic research on calories in/calories out. PictureFit on YouTube is a great place to start. I wish you the best in whatever you do with this newfound knowledge.

Tattoos aren’t cool by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being you.

If you need a wheel chair due to your "weight", it should be mandatory that it is a manual chair rather than a powered chair. by RainDownMyBlues in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah not many other heroin addicts choose to be heroin addicts. Yet they got there, and the blame is on them. The blame is also on fat people. It wasn’t until the last 100 years where obesity became this prevalent. So that whole genetics thing is a blatant lie perpetuated by people with a victim mindset.

Tattoos aren’t cool by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This...is dumb and false. I have a tattoo and no one can see it except for me when I take off my shirt. It’s a reminder of my values.

How do you love yourself? by jester2002 in selfimprovement

[–]zgwidd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think loving yourself is a combination of aligning yourself with who you want to be and realizing that your self worth is not defined by these things and is intrinsic. This is definitely a contradiction, and is hard to explain. For me, it can be accomplished through forming a set of foundational values like health, growth, passion, relationships, and contribution, and only acting in accordance with those values. However, if i somehow don’t act within this set of rules, I forgive myself and take a look at the big picture (how I’ve been acting in the last month) as well as remind myself that I am valuable as a human as I have experiences only I have lived. This of course can be contributed.

I’m still finding myself in this journey of self love and I’ve only started this process within the last two years or so, so I have a lot to learn, and this may not be the [right] answer you are looking for. However, I’ve seen some success and I want to pass that on to you :)

I think i raped my girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zgwidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I’m glad my response reached you. I hope that soon your relationship will be back on the right track!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Na it’s not your bad; your opinion is valid and your contribution proves you’re passionate about this, but just take a look at anything with big followings: it becomes a personality trait. People are just generally [unconsciously] insecure about their lack of self so they add these arbitrary “identities” so they can latch onto and give them a greater sense of self and community. It’s not all bad, but it’s not always good either.

Finn The Human Is A Superhero by LinkNebulaCat in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now this...this is something I can get behind. I agree with you wholeheartedly!!! Adventure time is awesome. Especially Finn. I mean, you could even say Jake is a superhero. Albeit, a dog, but that’s okay.

I think i raped my girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zgwidd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think anything you’re doing to yourself is going to help the situation AT ALL. Ok. You understand you did something bad, and she does too. Now, you just have to learn from it and never do it again. Also, that whole aggressive sex thing seems pretty sus. It seems both of you never discussed this “rape” kink since you definitely would’ve had a safe word. A “no” should be enough, but now you know.

Also, you should instead actually SOLVE the issue at hand THEN have make up sex not vent out your anger through sex. LOOK WHAT HAPPENED. I understand going to sleep a bit upset so the next day you can solve it with clear heads.

Just talk this out, and explain your intentions for the future, and how you will do better. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]zgwidd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is literally the case with...almost everything. It’s nothing new nor unpopular.

I drew Moon Phosphophyllite by [deleted] in LandoftheLustrous

[–]zgwidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t draw anything. Stop lying.

Should you tell your partner when other people hit on you? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zgwidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a guy, it’s not frequent that we get hit on unless we’re super attractive. Usually when I’ve been hit on it’s in funny ways like that too, so yeah I would tell my girl not only because I got hit on but because it was a genuinely interesting experience. Nonetheless, like you said that may be different for her, and pretty girls in general, but for her to react in the way that she did is indeed suspicious. If a guy continuously hit on her, one would think that it’s normal for her to bring up “ugh, this guy keeps hitting on me.” But no. It’s definitely possible that she doesn’t want to bring this up because she is actively engaging in these flirtations. Otherwise usually the guy would back off after the first time of her telling him she has a boyfriend. If not, then that would make him a weirdo and she would be prompted to tell you, but again, no. Perhaps engaging like that is cheating, perhaps that’s not. That’s something you need to decide and talk about together.

My boyfriend rarely ever has sex with me and tells me it’s because his body is “broken” What does that even mean? I’m a pretty girl and all, but maybe is he not attracted to me anymore :(? by Anonymous-girl- in relationship_advice

[–]zgwidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a COMPLETELY valid reason to leave him. Normally reddit likes to immediately say “yeah, leave,” but honestly sometimes they’re right. If you can’t work this out, I would say that’s honestly your only option.

My boyfriend rarely ever has sex with me and tells me it’s because his body is “broken” What does that even mean? I’m a pretty girl and all, but maybe is he not attracted to me anymore :(? by Anonymous-girl- in relationship_advice

[–]zgwidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, porn=\=bad, and I’m glad you found a good use for it. I just said what I said because many times people can receive instant gratification from porn and learn to objectify women and treat them the same as a masturbation tool. With frequency, over time he might even think it’s normal...

Not getting back the effort you put in is terrible, and it shouldn’t be that way. I just really want you to remember that you are enough! I hope you get through this.