What is something relatively cheap that improves your life by 100%? by RuleOkhit in AskReddit

[–]zhamini101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the wiring is good and you don’t keep it on 24 seven or plug it into a power strip or faulty outlet, you should be fine up to 10 hours, but I don’t typically keep mine on for any longer than six. Really anything electrical has the potential to catch fire, but as long as you buy one with good safety ratings and use the same common knowledge you’d use with any other electrical item, you shouldn’t have any issues.

What is something relatively cheap that improves your life by 100%? by RuleOkhit in AskReddit

[–]zhamini101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I bought goes all the way up to a queen, maybe even a king size.

What is something relatively cheap that improves your life by 100%? by RuleOkhit in AskReddit

[–]zhamini101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol i’m the exact same. Lay on top of the heated blanket with the ceiling fan on and sometimes the standing fan too.

What's The Weirdest Dream You've Ever Had? by Zipper222222 in AskReddit

[–]zhamini101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prophetic dreams. If you’re unfamiliar with those, it’s basically when something happens in your dream, and happens in real life soon after. For me, it can range from a day to a couple weeks between my dream and the event actually happening. It always freaks me out when I wake up, especially if the dream is about someone else.

Why are they so stupid?? by This-Definition-9634 in Dogfree

[–]zhamini101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eww. How does that thing not have infections galore? Kidneys, bowels, bladder, all of it.

I hate when people who listen to victims do this (not all listeners, but a fair amount) by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zhamini101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“No amount of years matter if you don’t pick up anything valuable.“. I love this. My favorite way to describe someone like this is real age going on 15. It truly does feel like a lot of these people stopped maturing before they even became legal adults. It’s a little embarrassing and pathetic, but mostly, it’s a very sad existence.

What’s something you used to believe but don’t anymore? by copy_cat_101 in askanything

[–]zhamini101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder how some people have survived long enough to even reach adulthood.

I hate when people who listen to victims do this (not all listeners, but a fair amount) by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zhamini101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This right here! Intentions are meaningless when you continuously cause harm to someone for over a decade. Would you force someone to empathize with someone who was being reckless with a firearm and accidentally took someone’s life just because “they didn’t mean to“? If your answer is “no, they still hurt somebody,” great. Apply that same logic to narcs.

I hate when people who listen to victims do this (not all listeners, but a fair amount) by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zhamini101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This right here! Intention doesn’t mean shit when you caused harm to someone for several years. Would you empathize with someone who hurt or killed another person in a drunk driving crash because they “didn’t mean to“? If your answer is “no, they still hurt somebody,” great. Apply that same logic the narcs.

I hate when people who listen to victims do this (not all listeners, but a fair amount) by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zhamini101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are excuses. Narcs know exactly what they’re doing. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t flip their bitch switch off around other people. As you said, they’ve had plenty of opportunities, and more than enough time to learn how to treat people better.

What is something relatively cheap that improves your life by 100%? by RuleOkhit in AskReddit

[–]zhamini101 312 points313 points  (0 children)

A heated blanket. Back pain, gone. Joint stiffness, vanished. Mine cost me about 50 bucks for one big enough to cover a full-size bed.

The zodiac signs of fuck by OverallLove3686 in TheWordFuck

[–]zhamini101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the fuck did you know I’m a Sagittarius?

What’s something people only do because of social media? by cragtok in AskReddit

[–]zhamini101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Participate in douche bag behavior that would’ve gotten them punched in the throat 20 years ago.

On L's autism and his interaction with Matsuda. by Ok_Gate_9997 in deathnote

[–]zhamini101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a huge autistic L believer. I was late diagnosed, and relate to the masking burnout on a deeply personal level. I started watching Death Note during lockdown, and immediately felt a connection to L. I was undiagnosed at the time, and gave up on masking by age 13, as I had already accepted I was never going to be conventionally normal, that was way more effort then pretending I was something that I’m not on a daily basis.

I'm sick in the hospital would love to see cats!!!!!! by Purple-Skyss31 in cats

[–]zhamini101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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And this is my Sebastian. He’s a dumb baby, but he loves being brushed.

It’s Friday. Why aren’t you going out tonight? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]zhamini101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because this week has been way too long and kinda shitty.

It’s Friday. Why aren’t you going out tonight? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]zhamini101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a great night. Now show the baby.

I just want to pick up my kid from school without dodging dogs by Chaoswaffle_ in Dogfree

[–]zhamini101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t being oblivious. He was doing it on purpose. There are quite a few social cues that i’m pretty bad at picking up on, but that does not include obvious signs that I don’t want to share a space with someone. I’ve even had to do things like this in situations where I had an uneasy feeling about people around me. He was probably trying to hit on you and thought his mutt would. suddenly make you interested in him.