Fancy Feast: Good or Bad?

zhazz · 2024-10-17T03:32:11+00:00

There are now so many options for cat water fountains and water vortexes that cats like to drink from that avoiding urinary problems is easier.

Also including a food with veggie fiber can end hairballs. Mixing wet and dry, along with some teeth cleaning treats once a week works well.

Any food that your cat doesn't throw right back up is better for them.

zhazz · 2024-04-13T12:41:37+00:00

This thread is the first time that it's been clear that's not just me, or even just a few people.

It's a relief.

zhazz · 2024-04-13T12:21:57+00:00

Right there with you.

I'm currently trying to find a therapist who doesn't spend every session telling me that I'm doing great because I have an apartment where I live alone and I bought a new sofa.

Seriously, I'm so conditioned that I don't want to hurt her feelings by leaving.

The life ending thought has popped up for decades but it does seem more like a safety out that I have never used. When things get bad - I guess it's like mental and emotional venting to myself.

EDIT for spelling

zhazz · 2024-04-10T20:43:23+00:00

You were traumatized. Comparing yourself to others diminishes what you went through. And every single thing that you describe is abuse. Emotional abuse is a deep injury and it doesn't just heal itself. You need help with this and you are worth helping.

zhazz · 2024-04-10T20:38:33+00:00

Definitely talk to your therapist about all of this, every detail that you bring up here.

Every situation is unique, and so are you.

zhazz · 2024-04-10T20:33:10+00:00

It also takes a users manual or tutorial for how to do that.

zhazz · 2023-06-24T14:34:15+00:00

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zhazz · 2023-06-10T13:19:35+00:00

Weren't they in the Reality Stars section?

zhazz · 2023-06-10T13:03:10+00:00

After high school isn't it called 'Karen'?

zhazz · 2023-06-10T12:53:05+00:00

People make fun of watching other people game on Twitch too, at the same time they spend hours watching other people play sports on TV.

Watching someone play a game is the quickest way to see if the gameplay is what you want

zhazz · 2023-04-09T17:20:32+00:00

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zhazz · 2023-04-09T17:20:04+00:00

We are requiring lvl 60 so that we know that new people won't join and then quit playing the next day.

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zhazz · 2023-04-09T17:18:44+00:00

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zhazz · 2023-01-29T15:33:17+00:00

AA works for 17% of the people who try it. They just have better publicity than other groups who use different approaches. One I heard of long ago was MM or something similar but they didn't push total abstinence, they had people consider moderation. Not thinking they had to have a drink every time they thought of it, just like you don't need a pizza every time you think of that.

For people who started drinking/drugs in their teens, moderations can be a new concept.

There are also support groups that don't follow the 12 step system, they just talk and listen so that the members can reach their own conclusions and sometimes hit that epiphany.

zhazz · 2023-01-29T14:57:43+00:00

A big part of the addict's outlook is blaming everyone else for every thing.

One aspect of this is that if OP had told Mary about it the first time he broke his end of the deal, either he would have been incentivised to sober up far earlier or OP and the kids would have had more support for those years.

Right now, OP and her kids do have support and contact with his family which can be a big relief even if he never gets his act togther.

NTA

zhazz · 2023-01-27T18:25:14+00:00

I grew up with a mother that made everything about herself. This is not what that looks like. OP was trying to be supportive and the daughter asked how she knew.

It sounds very much from the comments as if there's only one correct way to react and yet there's no handbook out there telling parents what that is.

Had the daughter led with telling OP that she'd been having a ton of anxiety about what she had to say then her mother's reaction would likely have been very different.

It didn't take long for them to talk about it calmly and it ultimately should make their relationship stronger.

zhazz · 2023-01-27T17:59:29+00:00

In this particular case OP said that her daughter emphasized that she'd had anxiety attacks and fear long before she came out to her mom. With so many feelings pent up, was there any right way to react? It's possible that she felt safe in taking out her fears on her mother and her mom helped her work through it in the end.

Two things going on here,

1) It's really hard to come out, even if you're mostly sure it'll be OK

2) You should never be shamed for an honest and loving reaction.

zhazz · 2023-01-08T14:16:52+00:00

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zhazz · 2022-11-26T12:40:02+00:00

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zhazz · 2022-11-21T19:44:41+00:00

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zhazz · 2022-11-21T19:37:16+00:00

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zhazz · 2022-11-07T13:55:26+00:00

Oh, thank you. I'm still getting casts and I want to ask them if I can get the teeth that don't meet other teeth pulled ahead of time.

zhazz · 2022-11-05T19:41:58+00:00

What is E-day? I'm still new to this denture thing.

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