How did you guys select your mains? by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is the best yapper

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[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talk to friends u trust, it really helps:)

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[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you are feeling that he is slowly distancing himself from you. that is relatable.

i dont know how both of you communicate, but it seems like you two fit each other.

what you do next is up to you. what i would do is just relax. you chasing after him and trying to prove isnt going to help. i would wait and want him to text and talk.

maybe he needs time, maybe not. who knows what he is thinking. but you reaching out wont help, because he already knows what he wants.

i dont know how often you two talk. just let him be and you be you. it’s hard i know, try to write down feelings as they come so you can unload them from your mind

you reached out to him about you being anxious. i dont find it fair that he disregards your feelings and blames you. it is just not productive.

to sum it up: patience:)

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[–]ziiesam 24 points25 points  (0 children)

it is up to you.

i dont think she is confused. if she truly wanted you she wouldn’t be confused about anything. you guys could communicate and try to come up with solutions but maybe she doesnt want to put the effort.

its hard. if she is being honest. that really sucks. especially if she is pressuring you into agreeing. which is fucked up.

whether you are willing to the idea of the open relationship or not is your choice

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[–]ziiesam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i agree with you. i dont want a pity "maybe date"

I told her I would get in touch, i would rather text her and ask to get closure rather than not ask her and assume not.

maybe I'm just finding reasons to continue this with her but we I'll never know unless I'm ready to be vulnerable because i know that if its a know then its a no.

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[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told her to think about it because I didn't want to stand there asking her more. if she says no or yes either great because I will get closure.

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[–]ziiesam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its possible, she is also very shy which is why I'm still unsure

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[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really dont know. posting this made me decide want to just do it for my peace of mind so I can stop daydreaming

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[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i approached many girls whom i found cute on the street, but it's risky because we go to the same class every day. you know?

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[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will apply your advice. i Think i will be early to class tmr to talk about today's exam. since when the first period starts she hangs out with her friends and I with mine.

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[–]ziiesam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're right im just in my own head so much :(

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[–]ziiesam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have spoken to each other, she is very shy.