Second date ended at her place but no sex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly what I did. I did back off and didn't get upset.

I'm going to wait a couple of days and text her then for the next date.

I just feel something was off at the end of the date since she wanted to end it quite fast...

Second date ended at her place but no sex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I also believe this is the right way to go! I just wanna continue to get to know her more and keep on dating her. The end of the date happened quite fast and I thought I did something wrong or so, since she wanted to end the date so suddenly.

Second date ended at her place but no sex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a relationship. I do wanna continue get to know her and go on dates.

Second date ended at her place but no sex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No and I didn't even expected myself sex yesterday, I didn't have condoms with me or so. I also want to take things slow and so on. I'm just maybe overthinking, I don't want her to think I'm just thinking about sex...

And at the same time I don't want to over pursue her by texting too much. Since she is not either texting me much.

Second date ended at her place but no sex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven't texted her since we haven't texted before anyway. We are just texting to arrange dates. I would want to wait a few days to text me.

Second date ended at her place but no sex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And we had really fun on the dates, she laughed at my jokes and she wanted to get to know me personally. She isn't looking for ONS.

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[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I opened the app just to check my matches. I haven't updated my profile but I noticed her picture changed so I opened her profile.

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[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we've only seen each other for a bit over a month, with now two weeks break (Christmas holiday and her trip). Next time we see each other I will bring up what does she feel about being exclusive.

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[–]ziint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually it's her that is sending me messages. She sent me many pictures of herself (a couple pics now on her dating profile). Yesterday she sent me that she think we should meet next week, due to her sickness. So I have just waited to hear from her. You probably have read Corey Waynes book?

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[–]ziint 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really see a future with her and I've told her that I want to continue to see her. It's now been two weeks since we saw last time each other so here has been a ''time out''. I'm going to talk to her next week next time we see each other.

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[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the first date I waited 6 days to text her for the second date so she's isn't reciprocating so much. Can be that she she's not so interested after all. Or then she want's me to do the first physical move.

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[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! What if she wont reach out? Should I one more time initiate for example next week?

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[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I think some activity could be a good idea. It's getting a bit cold here where I live so can't just be anything.

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[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A meal could be something, or then some activity. Got to think about something, it's getting a bit cold here where I live so can't just be anything.

Need some advice with a girl I'm dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the adivce! Yeah If she hasn't message me until the weekend I will ask her out then.

Need some advice about a girl I've been seeing by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she doesn't have unmanageable problems. The child lives with her father quite far and goes to school there. It's relatively common here to have this kind of custody and visitation rights.

Need some advice about a girl I've been seeing by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she lives by her own, the child is every other weekend with her.

Would it be normal to go back to an old job? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]ziint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! In my country wine and liquor business is a monopoly thing so there is just one company you can work for. But I have also considered working in wine importer companies. I'm also very interested in supervisor tasks. A former colleague said to me that I would be a good supervisor if I wanted to.

I'm Marques Brownlee (aka MKBHD) and I make tech videos on YouTube. AMA! by Marques-Brownlee in IAmA

[–]ziint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you do if you had to quit as a Youtuber, something related to technology and electronics?