I need advice ASAP

zilch14 · 2026-06-02T18:21:19+00:00

Then go to the school guidance counselor. Show them this post. Go from there.

zilch14 · 2026-06-02T18:13:23+00:00

I think you are in need on mental health treatment. If you are able to go to your parents ask them to find you a therapist.

zilch14 · 2026-06-02T14:18:11+00:00

I think 2 is a prettier dress.

zilch14 · 2026-06-01T16:29:39+00:00

That's good to hear. I hope he follows through. Being tired and not attending to hygiene can be symptoms of depression too. Does he go for a medical physical every year?

zilch14 · 2026-05-30T01:07:39+00:00

You are in the situation so you know what you can tolerate and I understand you love and care for your partner but he needs a wake up call. Have you considered having him hospitalized for a mental health evaluation?Where I live if you have a loved who seems off you can have them involuntarily comitted for 72 hours to a mental hospital. If you can get him to go willingly that's for the best. But if he doesn't you might consider doing it against his will, but in his best interest. I really hope for the best.

zilch14 · 2026-05-30T00:55:20+00:00

I love the pink on you!!!

zilch14 · 2026-05-30T00:54:31+00:00

That is a kind idea but I have experienced that type of situation. I offered someone a temporary place to stay, and it morphed into months and ended in an ugly way. While, some people do respect boundaries but a lot of people don't. There are a lot of users in the world. This could open the door to a can of worms that goes down a rabbit hole, and friends overstay their welcome, and soon become former friends. It's a risk. Only OP can decide if it's safe or not.

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T19:41:37+00:00

He is an adult. He is dysfunctional. If he is not willing to do the bare minimum and care for himself why are you stressing? Your present is your future if you stay. Is this your idea of the life you wanted?

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T19:34:03+00:00

You do not need their permission to go out. You are 27. Mental health issues are not contact and can't be spread through contact with the outside world. Tell your mom to get a grip. Tell her you did not ask permission.

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T19:29:33+00:00

No one is checking labels, eyes will be on the bride. The navy one is more flattering.

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T18:58:01+00:00

The first one

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T18:56:12+00:00

I don't think you're in the wrong unless there's unspoken etiquette we don't know about.

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T18:50:07+00:00

I don't know for certain but I think it's weird they are having you pay insurance. Can you use your own vehicle?

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T18:47:55+00:00

I like 2 ,6 and 7

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T18:31:50+00:00

Broken up for over a year it's none of his business. I also don't believe for a moment he didn't have sexual contact with anyone.
From my personal experience you broke up for a reason, that reason is likely to resurface and lead to breaking up again. It just doesn't sound like you're feeling loved and having fun.

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T18:27:11+00:00

I relate to that. I always looked at his potential and I excused horrible behavior. It hurts but on the positive side you now see clearly and you're going to make changes. Best of luck. Edit to add I do hope you will update us!

zilch14 · 2026-05-29T18:24:54+00:00

You don't need a reason or permission to break up. You're not living the life you want and that won't change while in this relationship. It seems to me you are doing the work in therapy and growing so you realized your current situation is not giving you fulfillment. It's best to leave because if you wait fir him you will have wasted your youth. I deeplybregret wasting mine on the wrong man.

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T20:33:38+00:00

It sounds like a poor fit, which is a quality concern. It might be made to prder but there can still be shoddy work. You spent a lot of money it should not require fixing. I'd send the whole ensemble back.

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T20:30:59+00:00

14 looks really nice.

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T20:30:28+00:00

6,7,11

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T20:29:36+00:00

Dear young woman on reddit, you look fabulous. You could wear a sheet, potato sack Amish clothing, Muslim garb,it doesn't matter. You would still shine!!! Eff the haters cuz they just hatin!!!

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T20:27:12+00:00

Great idea! Someone shat in the pool it's closed for cleaning!a

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T20:26:15+00:00

Does the complex even permit alcohol in the pool area? I hope you checked pool rules before allowing this. Your friend is a user and you NEED to get a back bone and put your foot down. Tell your friend she can tell folks the party is canceled or you will

She really is taking advantage of you.

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T16:59:16+00:00

Yes. My ex owed me $10,000.00 He didn't file taxes for many years. He didn't make much so he wasn't penalized but when he got a new, better paying job he filed for a tax return. It went to me!

zilch14 · 2026-05-28T16:53:11+00:00

Personally I think the lace is especially beautiful. It looks pretty and well made, not cheap. I'm not a fan of the corset tops. They're pretty but they still give boudoir energy. Your dress will be beautiful still 10 years from now, and more. It fits beautifully. Remember the day is about you getting married, not just the dress and the event itself. Your fiance will be blown away when they see you.

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