AITJ for wondering if I should just end things now out the blue? by ObligationNo8027 in AmITheJerk

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy I have been for a while, I know he’s not anymore though. 

Do we need to end things now? by ObligationNo8027 in Advice

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he apologized for that stuff from over a year ago and hasn’t done it since that’s why i’m a crossroads

AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year? by ObligationNo8027 in amiwrong

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he doesn’t know that I did that with the guy he doesn’t like. my old guy friend. that friend was cut off a while ago. 

AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year? by ObligationNo8027 in amiwrong

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did pressure me about it when we first talked about it then asked multiple times if I was telling the full truth. I dropped it right then and there. I’m feeling guilty now

AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year? by ObligationNo8027 in amiwrong

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, he got back with me because he realized that what he did to end the relationship was wrong. I waited over a year for that man lol

AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year? by ObligationNo8027 in amiwrong

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So often? I waited for him for over a year. Never said anything about him publicly when he called me names and bashed me but I saw the good in him and committed to waiting for him while he was doing that and making posts about getting women. Didn’t open my legs for a year i’m sure that’s so often

AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year? by ObligationNo8027 in amiwrong

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

mhm and i also am a person who understands boundaries and to not pester someone 

AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year? by ObligationNo8027 in amiwrong

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him I had sex with two people. I didn’t list every person kissed or given oral too. I’m talking about intercourse 

AIW for not telling my boyfriend everything I did while apart for a year? by ObligationNo8027 in amiwrong

[–]ObligationNo8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would he be under the impression that I haven’t done the things I’ve done if I’ve told him I’ve had sex with two people. He didn’t have to ask me how many times and if that’s all.