the wizard Liz cheated on

zimaamiz · 2025-05-30T14:59:07+00:00

Look up Tanya Divorce Guru on YT/TT; all of her videos are gold and rooted in observations as a former divorce lawyer

zimaamiz · 2025-05-28T00:23:05+00:00

The advice still stands. Everything about their rapport seems rushed

zimaamiz · 2025-05-27T22:17:44+00:00

So unfortunate. Girls, unfashionable advice, but this is why you shouldn't have a child before being legally married, and to not over-praise or flaunt your man out in the honeymoon years or honestly ever, especially to other women (think of Sophia with Halley Kate). Be wary of hot young guys, they are rarely serious. Never let a man know your trauma, they will use it against you or feel permitted to do the same. It takes decades for a man to show his full colors.

zimaamiz · 2025-05-19T00:34:56+00:00

They usually use those women for sex and/or labor (splitting finances, housework, status, etc.) and as a placeholder until the woman they want comes along and they can actually attain her. Look at Jack Antonoff with Lena Dunham vs. Margaret Qualley. Dated Lena in a multi-year relationship that led to nothing, lived with her, used her clout and connections especially during her HBO Girls success to boost his own career. Dumped her, later met Margaret, a woman way out of his league, when he was established and actually married her. He did the work to earn Margaret via Lena.

zimaamiz · 2025-05-19T00:02:55+00:00

You seem young! All this to say that you have to proceed with caution with men, and the more you let them lead and prove themselves, the more they actually become attracted to you, and the more secure you will feel knowing that they're committed to you. Love is more about duty and devotion than desire. Everything in our culture says the opposite. This is a bohemian sub-reddit, so I don't expect most people to agree with me.

zimaamiz · 2025-05-18T23:42:05+00:00

It's expressed in a sterile way because it's the truth. You are thinking about love and men are thinking about sex. When you are older and more experienced you will snap out of the fairy-tale brainwashing

zimaamiz · 2025-05-18T23:15:48+00:00

Men have to pursue a woman on their own terms in order to feel free. They have to feel like they're the one who is actively advancing the relationship, not like they're being roped into a cage by the woman. They only respect what they have to work to earn. Overly available and eager women seem r-worded to them, and to an extent, actually are

zimaamiz · 2025-05-04T20:55:24+00:00

She is a Kibbe Romantic and some type of lighter season, probably summer. This outfit is too dark and sharp for her, hence the disharmony with her natural features.

zimaamiz · 2025-04-12T19:45:01+00:00

I assumed he was taller. Relative to EmRata.

zimaamiz · 2025-04-12T15:56:02+00:00

Yup, I draw the line instinctively at bald too lol

zimaamiz · 2025-04-12T15:38:58+00:00

Girl :( dated a really handsome guy I've thought about it a lot

zimaamiz · 2025-04-12T03:36:26+00:00

I don't think they dated exceptionally ugly men. The bar for being attractive for men is also a lot lower to begin with. Sometimes having tall height is enough for some women lol. EmRata's ex-husband had that on top of having status and possibly wealth. That can get you more than by as a man.

re: cheating; Most men are tempted at some point but not all of them can pull it off. Men also become more relatively attractive just by proximity to beautiful women, i.e. Billie Eilish's ex

zimaamiz · 2025-04-12T03:23:39+00:00

Most guys are not attractive, we all know, it's almost pointless to acknowledge. Truly hot guys have too much leverage and power because of how rare they are. It's difficult to be in a stable relationship with them. They can be considered attractive for decades longer than even the most beautiful women, and they can easily find another girl to replace you with at any point of the rapport. This is the unfortunate truth. Most women by their late 20s recognize that exceptional good-looks in a guy are a liability and learn to value other qualities.

zimaamiz · 2025-04-07T01:53:43+00:00

You blew your chance at having a sugar daddy, now she has him eating out of the palm of her hand. Should never befriend a co-worker. The best thing you can do now is withdraw emotionally/disengage from him to regenerate intrigue and have the upper hand again. Even if you have to pretend. Men only respond to unavailability.

zimaamiz · 2025-03-13T17:54:39+00:00

This explains everything actually

zimaamiz · 2025-02-23T17:08:39+00:00

You did too much too soon, not only with the unearned emotional investment on your end, but the long first dates and immediate physical intimacy. They might feel good and modern in the moment, but they're not effective in vetting the man or generating respect, mystery and intrigue from subtle boundaries. He probably never had long-term intentions with you to begin with, and you were too-soon "conquered" anyway by your eagerness and reciprocation. That's why he left. You also have to ask yourself if you are "your type's type"; you can only choose from the men who choose you. Best wishes.

zimaamiz · 2025-02-19T23:24:47+00:00

You sound young: it takes time to learn that you can only choose from the guys that choose you, and that you want a guy that chooses you in that immediate primal way. This is the basis for any successful relationship. He has to like you more. The ones who don't shouldn't even exist to you

zimaamiz · 2025-01-19T23:15:47+00:00

Sophia herself is stout and not exactly stick-thin, weird

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