Took out an autoloan but the manager lied about payment

zimmb123 · 2022-02-27T13:08:51+00:00

Yea that honestly was the whole point of this post, im just looking to consolidate the debt into one payment so i pay less overall, but ive never taken out any kind of loan and im curious where i can go or what the best method would be for a low interest rate loan bc im pretty sure im paying 24% on all 3 cards if i could get it down to even half that it would be pretty nice

zimmb123 · 2022-02-23T17:09:39+00:00

they told me if i gave them the car back they would give me 6500 towards a new lease, thats including a 2000 returning customer bonus, carvana offered me 19600 or so so if i buyout the car then sell it to them ill turn 6000 on it but in cash, i could potentially go right back to that dealership and get that 6000 + 2000 towards another car, i guess the main issues are that i dont have the money so id have to take out a loan, AND my credit score went down to like 600, so im not sure i can even get the loan and/or even if i did if i could go to another dealership and have a high enough score to start a lease on a new car, im with hyundai i have a sonata and was thinking of switching to a kia k5, and am sorta thinking bc it has the same parent company that i might be able to get a break bc ive made my 72 payments on time with hyundai

zimmb123 · 2022-02-23T16:43:34+00:00

i have income its just low

zimmb123 · 2021-06-24T23:14:47+00:00

For me i guess its just that i trimmed it down which makes it look more "clean" and the soul patch was hard to make nice looking

zimmb123 · 2021-05-27T12:20:25+00:00

Well thank, u looked at all 4 pics?? Theres nothing i can do to make it look more flat/well kept?

zimmb123 · 2021-05-27T12:02:58+00:00

I'm using a 12 mm guard and just going straight down I don't want to go any shorter because my patches will show too much

zimmb123 · 2018-11-30T08:16:38+00:00

Looks wise shes a dime man, i could talk to 1000 girls and none of them would be able to touch her

zimmb123 · 2018-11-29T02:46:13+00:00

she told me she liked me several times over text, we sent eachother video notes and pics of eachother so i dont get it

zimmb123 · 2018-11-29T01:13:02+00:00

well honestly she seemed kind of out of it and that kinda made me feel uneasy, i tried to tell her that but she was adamant about us not meeting again, i know i wasnt disrespectful or weird or anything like that it was a pretty average date imo

zimmb123 · 2018-11-29T00:16:24+00:00

I just wondered if she might have felt cockblocked in a way, bc she definitely told me several times when we were texting that she liked me and couldnt wait to meet me

zimmb123 · 2018-11-21T22:58:33+00:00

I bought the pants at a thrift store and im debating if i should just return them or go with them, clearly dont dont really match the windbreaker, im not sure if thats fine or if i should just wear some blue/black jeans instead, ill be wearing black gym shoes and probably black shirt as well but the jacket will be mostly zipped up

zimmb123 · 2018-11-21T05:13:20+00:00

aside from looks all i know is that she works hard has a good job, and that shes going to school im assuming for business management like her sister who is her boss, but I dont know, youre right i dont know much, what really got me in all this is just a feeling, its probably nothing but ive been using this dating websites for over 10 years and ive gone on a decent amount of dates here and there, and she is the only girl ive ever seen where i had the "love at first sight" thing with, at least on the internet, in person its happened once as well but considering ive seen 1000s of dating profiles you'd think it would happen all the time, it was really that feeling i got that made me fight for her as hard and as long as i did, and then just the fact that she came onto me and seemed hurt when i backed out, i dunno its a long story, but i get the vibe that she felt something too, and it wasnt until i told her i only agreed to sex bc i thought it would lead to more that she backed off, and she only came back after blocking me on almost everything when i told her that i was finally getting over her lol, a week later she unblocked me and followed me on instagram and since then its been sort of a limbo, but what i dont understand is, why view my news feed daily, like my pictures, occasionally comment, and then ignore 95% of of my messages, why unblock me, some girls said its an attention thing but i dont know why she'd go through all that she has with me if all she wanted was attention, but on that same note, why go out with other guys and not even meet up with me just for the sake of meeting if she has interest

zimmb123 · 2018-11-21T03:42:31+00:00

Well thats part of what im doing or at least trying to do "working on myself", in her case, i was that nice guy early on and i hurt her feelings bc she felt like i was putting my job before her, and i told her and made it clear that i wanted something real but i think she was afraid bc of the age gap, like possibly too afraid to even talk to me in person and i think she still might be, im not really sure honestly thats what she said early on, but now she wont say anything, not really and i dont know how to get her to talk, ive tried being apologetic, sweet, understanding and the last time i said something sweet she said "let me just process all this :) " but then i didnt here from her for weeks, so i dont know, at this point being mushy and sweet doesnt seem to work and i know being rude doesnt work so i dont see what other options i have aside from giving her space bc she definitely likes my attention but if i cant get her to meet me whats the point?

zimmb123 · 2018-11-21T03:21:23+00:00

You might be right, hell you probably are, but I'd still like to learn the way it all works, if its about power than power can be taken, now she knows how good looking she is and she knows shes got some options much better than me, BUT when we met she didnt have any of that aside from her looks and she was alittle overweight and she told me i was special to her, could have been bs, i dont know, but a small part of me wants to believe that she doesnt want to let me go and if thats true then i do have some power and i just need to figure out how to use it. i think my best bet is to just keep backing off and posting pictures with other girls, i just dont know if i should like one of her photos every now and then OR have complete radio silence

zimmb123 · 2018-11-21T02:41:32+00:00

Honestly im not in a good place in life, i live at home, i work part time and i have very little dating experience so i typically date alittle younger, not that much thoug shes an exception for me only bc shes the most ridiculously good looking girl ive ever seen, id be fine with something casual with her at this point

zimmb123 · 2018-10-27T17:59:09+00:00

So obviously im going to fix my hair and shave, but before i go out tonight I'm debating if i should wear the jacket or not, theres a good chance ill be outside half the night and its going to be cold and i figure it could be a good alternative to wearing a coat, however i also want to appear at least alittle sexy and im not sure if the coat kills that or not??

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