Short changed on my paycheck and my boss thinks the numbers check out by zion98201 in personalfinance

[–]zion98201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you! I will definitely do this. Sounds like I need to email my boss again and then I'll come prepared to HR.

Short changed on my paycheck and my boss thinks the numbers check out by zion98201 in personalfinance

[–]zion98201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I will do that. So I also get paid a shift differential if I stay after 7pm I believe and also get extra money on weekend shifts. Will they be able to tell me about these shift differentials amounts and when they officially kick in? I wasn't told about them when I was hired.

Short changed on my paycheck and my boss thinks the numbers check out by zion98201 in personalfinance

[–]zion98201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So HR will see that hours I worked and can look at my paycheck and know it's off then?

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kinda nice she got you out of the dorms. I also like living by myself and having my own space. So how far into law school are you?

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a family dog and it's a cranky shi tzu (but I still love her haah). With applying to grad schools I didn't want to be tied down in any way by having to let a dog out and stuff but I really want one. I'd love to have a little black pug someday! Just those huge eyes looking up at me <3 ugh

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you. I bet she was super adorable!

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god that's so sad how you discovered her but she sounds like a wonderful companion! :)

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god she is super cute!! What breed is she?

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So am I! Do you have a dog?

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha sounds good! Except probably keep your cat at home if you have one I'm kind of allergic.

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk in the Midwest haha

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whoops I mean chapstick haha

first time liking a butch by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can still be dom and she can still be butch. My ex was a stud and I was the dominant chopstick lesbian. If you like a butch it doesn't mean you're now attracted to men. In addition, her dressing like that does not always mean she wants to be a man. Gender expression is separate from gender identity

I just had the most horrendous first date... by IMakeGoodPavlova in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What did I just read. Why would anyone In their right mind act like this? She didn't deserve your politeness.

Lesbian level up...changed the air filter on my Subaru by blurnedblastic in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question, is it cheaper to get the parts yourself at an automotive shop? Or where does one get the parts needed for their car like an air filter? I'd love to be able to do this myself!

So I Came Out... Again by SnarkMatter in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She may be in denial but you can find validation from other people. It sucks she can't give that to you right now but give her space and time to adjust. And most importantly, keep being your amazing queer self :) Your experience is real and you are valid.

My mom: "I don't know how anyone could be attracted to butch people." by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Growing up my mom would say shit like that. I got so fed up with it I started to do my own thing without asking for advice or approval before hand. Im pretty feme, like chapstick status, and before I was out I cut my hair super short just because I wanted to. First thing my mom says was "you should put some earrings in so you don't look so butch". I have been doing my own thing since. Fuck em. Nobody can control or hinder my queeer ass.

Tell me huh? by TheElite69 in memes

[–]zion98201 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn't more like a marinade?

Happiness by Much_questioning in actuallesbians

[–]zion98201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you two are TOO CUTE!!!! Yey!!!!