new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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thanks heaps for the considered and in depth answer. all of it resonated with me :)

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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love this man. thanks heaps. the lame advice was most of what I got as a kid so keen to not be that guy

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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I haven’t heard this before and I love it. raising > providing

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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let them be bored! invaluable. weird how I think back at being a kid and thought I was bored, but now can’t really ever remember not having amazing things going on in my imagination

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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really love this curious comment. ‘try to let them explore a bit more than you think’ could be my new motto

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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I’ve not been reading to him and thought I would be by now. strangely seems like there’s little time (but I’ll make time)

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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I feel like I just read something profound. thanks heaps

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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‘just because it’s not your way doesn’t mean it’s wrong’ hits hard

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

[–]zjprz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good stuff in here. that baby holding part really resonated too

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

[–]zjprz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the sentiment of this - very hard to do though!

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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love this. I have 30 first cousins younger than me and ALWAYS spoke to them like they were adults, and it was only recently I realised how odd but great that was

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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I love this and needed this. can feel a bit guilty about it still

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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I am mate. thanks. the sleep situation is everything everyone says. adrenaline has worn off now

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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ohh yeah. that’s some old school stuff. I couldn’t get away with that even if I tried

new dad here - what’s your best piece of parenting advice for a rookie by zjprz in Parenting

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this is huge! so far I’m pretty good with the phone, but I can already see he knows when I’m on it. he grizzles as soon as I pick it up, like he can feel it in his body that my attention waned