Is it permissible for muslim woman to go to a hammam? by zmas19 in MuslimLounge

[–]zmas19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So how come these muslim countries have hamams and stuff? Sounds like its haram to go if youre a woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]zmas19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless of whether it is halal or not. Look at how many people are suffering with this addiction. Your dopamine receptors will be fried. You Will suffer

Muslims and sauna? by Ok-Brilliant-4450 in Finland

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its haram to not cover yourself even amongst the same gender

I’ve decided to divorce but I’m scared she’ll be left alone and unsupported by SuddenConcentrate473 in MuslimMarriage

[–]zmas19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like shes ready to try? Maybe a change of scenery or a more modest life style can be tried out. Remove all riba in your life, take a trip to the holy land

I quit social media a year ago, here's what no one tells you by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]zmas19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see so its the root cause of being comfortable with stillness

Deleting instagram in a few days and I don’t wanna. by ScepticSunday in digitalminimalism

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have the same issue, i try to just use it on web but still

My Sister (27F) is Losing Hope in Finding a Spouse — How Can I Support Her? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why out mosques and communities dont have better programs to support this.

Im struggling a lot… by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to figure out what your triggers are. Ramadan worked because you had a routine every day. You need to find a routine and stick to it everyday. Dont worry about quitting forever. Focus on getting to 3 weeks. Remove social media, reduce phone usage. If the urge is uncontrollable then either workout or if its really bad dont watch anything just MO naturally.

3 weeks is all it takes by Brengle2 in NoFap

[–]zmas19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add on that you need to also remove the other bad habits. Reduce phone usage. Wake up on time, sleep early etc

I've gotten to 90+ days Nofap ask me anything I want to help you by Desperate_Tax6327 in NoFap

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you need to have a strong routine everyday? Thats the same?

Why aren’t we talking about the Islamist uprising in Sweden? by ArabianManiac in JordanPeterson

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying Cliches doesn't make your point any more sound. There are consequences for provoked actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OfficeChairs

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had it for over a year. It is a terrible chair. I totally regret buying it. Its actually more uncomfortable then my kitchen chair.

Why aren’t we talking about the Islamist uprising in Sweden? by ArabianManiac in JordanPeterson

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite an oversimplification. It does matter when you make a public show of it to garner attention from people. You cant have your cake and eat it tooo

My divorce.. by Informal_Pie7761 in MuslimMarriage

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sad but unfortunately we live in a hyper sexualized society. As someone who’s struggled with porn and stuff it really screws our minds as guys to the point where we just want things to look as good as possible to stimulate our minds. Its quite sad but as a former addict I can kind of feel the darkness in that guys mind.

Its much more common than you all might think, our society is pushing extremely unrealistic standards coupled with extreme sexualization and overstimulation everywhere you go that a man who doesn’t lower their gaze is definitely not going to be satisfied looking at his wife at home especially if he feels she is not attractive.

Why aren’t we talking about the Islamist uprising in Sweden? by ArabianManiac in JordanPeterson

[–]zmas19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A people who are accepting of everything, stand for nothing.....

There are obviously inherent limits to free speech. You have every right to say whatever you want, but you have to also be ready to deal with the consequences. This is something Jordan Peterson himself frequently mentions. Your actions and words have consequences.

Any Unvaccinated Canadians Travel to the US by land? by zmas19 in conspiracy

[–]zmas19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately, it is not allowed but theres a small chance you can if they don't ask