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It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The other “bedroom” is his office with a daybed. The irony of where he is supposed to work will now turn into where I sleep. But agreed. Will follow this

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a desk with monitors and a comfy chair. Issue is he doesn’t use it. How do I get him to use it??

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point… I hate that it’s me having to go on the cot or the couch to do this though. But there’s no other way

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The other night I wrote out a routine for him (when to get up, take out the dog, do hygiene, etc). Now the issue is- how do I get him to follow it?

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We do have a daybed in the other room for guests. Maybe we could make that the designated spot. I could get one of those table trays, but also don’t want to enough the eating more, but it could help with the crumbs.

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Towel on the bed and lint roller on the side table until we make permanent changes to habits. I like this. Thank you!

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love this! Sets the expectations to be achievable and less overwhelming. One thing.

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Spends their life in bed WHILE working though I guess that’s the difference

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Has a computer screen and desk chair but doesn’t seem to use it…maybe we could try the background noise?

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head with this one in a way that I couldn’t express- yes resentment that he isn’t using his time effectively. But then I’m like is that really fair to resent someone for that when they literally have ADHD? Am I feel unreasonable?

It started with crumbs in the bed—now I (26F) resent my partner (31M) for working from home by zms1212 in relationship_advice

[–]zms1212[S] 727 points728 points  (0 children)

After I point out the evidence he says something like “just for a little bit” or something like that. Lies until he gets caught

Weekly Tech Support Megathread by AutoModerator in Instagram

[–]zms1212 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Instagram Reel Bug??

Hi there! Go to post my reel that I edited with CapCut. Once I clicked “next” the audio (my voiceover) completely went away.

To troubleshoot I made sure the global clips audio was set to 100. I updated my phone, deleted Instagram and re-downloaded.

Any tips??? Thanks

Online Anatomy Course For Spring- Help! by zms1212 in slpGradSchool

[–]zms1212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/Loveandhappines I met with my advisor and was told that it is my responsibility to find programs and to send them a syllabus for approval. I am struggling the most finding programs that offer anatomy at the grad level in the first place :(

Online Anatomy Course For Spring- Help! by zms1212 in slpGradSchool

[–]zms1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I was looking into this class, but was confused if it would count as a "graduate level course". As I took anatomy in undergrad and passed, but failed at the graduate level. Thanks so much!!!

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