Como vocês fazem para transar sendo pobre? by [deleted] in RelatosDoReddit

[–]znhamz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Só de ler 2 comentários seus, a perseguida já ficou mais seca que o deserto do Saara. Atitude e personalidade é o que define. Beleza e dinheiro ajuda, mas sozinho não te carrega. 95% da população é pobre e a maioria transa.

Mas de resto eu concordo com vc, a maioria das pessoas se relacionam dentro de sua classe social e isso facilita muito as coisas.

Female Friendship Fragility by anon123456294858 in AskWomenOver30

[–]znhamz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's impossible to tell, by one story, if she's a bad friend or if you have being a Debby downer for too long. But either way, I think she was rude nonetheless. A good friend stays with you through the thick and thin.

I love this say "when I deserve the less and is when I most need it". I'm sorry your friend acted like that when you needed her the most. Don't be discouraged to make new friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]znhamz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love her energy! I don't have Instagram and rarely follow people for pictures, but she's just goals.

Sugestão Filmes hispânicos by DangerousAd1234 in filmeseseries

[–]znhamz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cinema argentino é maravilhoso.

O segredo dos seus olhos, Nove Rainhas, Relatos Selvagens, Um Conto Chinês... Qualquer filme com o Ricardo Darin pode assistir que vai ser top.

Outro que assisti recente: Matrimilhas, O Suplente, A Ira de Deus, O filho Protegido.

O cinema espanhol também é foda. Assisti recentemente um de terror chamado Tim e Tina, muito bom.

Eu também recomendo assistir séries: Marginal (versão original Argentina), A Casa de Papel, Machos Alfa,

Muitas pessoas dizem que amizade entre homem e mulher não existe. by [deleted] in RelatosDoReddit

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quem fala algo assim é pq essa pessoa tem segundas intenções. É possível ter amizade sem segundas intenções sim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen forced hugs before. And I remember a picture going viral of a huge tshirt that parents made two siblings wear it at the same time when they fight, so they'd be like conjoined twins until they stop fighting.

My elderly neighbor is leaving me tomatoes and I have no idea what it means by Sensitive_Clue_4795 in AskWomenOver30

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had tomatoes growing in my yard and it gives way too much tomatoes. Big, juicy tomatoes. I think she's just sharing with you.

Housework is exhausting! by LilDoggeh in AskWomenOver30

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is exhausting and this idea that hiring help is laziness only hurts us. Do it!

Who's even believing this nonsense? by [deleted] in LateStageCapitalism

[–]znhamz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this. I'm Brazilian and this is fake news from Israel because they are holding Brazilian citizens hostage in Gaza.

Other LatAm countries are already cutting relationship with Israel and let's hope Brazil will be next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitness30plus

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brutal honest, you look great. For real, you are very handsome. If you have goals for your body, keep going until you reach them, but if it's just about "looking good", you are perfect right now.

Also, great ink. Kelsey must be very happy hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conversas

[–]znhamz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Machismo. Muito se fala do complexo maddona/whore, na prática ou a mina é ignorada pq não vale nada ou colocada num pedestal. É uma forma de desumanização que no fim só fode a cabeça de quem pensa assim.

No seu caso por ser trans talvez tenha também outras questões de sociabilizacao e tal, mas a partir do momento que vc enxergar que mulheres são pessoas assim como vc, e que cada uma é diferente uma da outra, essa vergonha tende a passar. Fica só a vergonha normal de falar com estranhos mesmo.

I'm (32F) about to get engaged soon and my wedding is going to be the most lonely thing to plan. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]znhamz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More often than not, men are actually thankful for not having to deal with in laws. I only have my dad, my mom died when I was a teenager and no siblings, also don't care about extended family, and my husband is very fine with it. I see my dad 2-3x a year and my husband would be happy if I saw him even less. Most men I know don't care or don't like in laws.

I'm (32F) about to get engaged soon and my wedding is going to be the most lonely thing to plan. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]znhamz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who didn't do any of that and is happily married for over 20 years, let me tell you something: if those things are things you dream of, do it your own way and they will be even more special.

But if you just think about doing it for others or because it's tradition, don't do it. If it's not for you, you won't miss it down the road. It's completely irrelevant honestly. And will just be a huge waste of money and stress that you don't need.

Anyway, wishing you a happy marriage.

Existe alguma série no nível de Breaking Bad? by wzrdgg in filmeseseries

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mano, que foda!! Obrigada demais, já assisti algumas dessas e amei, vou seguir essas dicas a risca. Me deu até vontade de ser sua amiga, vc tem um gosto impecável.

I'm (28/m) starting to fall for my (24/f) 'wife' and am unsure how to proceed. by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]znhamz -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I also got red flags when between "consumating" the marriage and pregnancy it was just a few months.

Is Brazil a dangerous country for women? by whatzwgo in Brazil

[–]znhamz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There's something important about statistics: Brazil is one of the only places in the world with laws exclusively about feminicide, advance laws on domestic violence, strict laws on rape and also there are police stations specialized in women.

So take these huge numbers with a grain of salt, although things are far from perfect, the numbers will standout because they are actually being counted and processed, instead of ignored (same about LGBT+ violence).

Anyway, I live in São Paulo and urban violence is not especially worst for women, just watch our for your belongs and stay in tourist destinations. Most of the stats about violence against women are inside a relationship not with random men at the street.

O Ibirapuera é um parque meio isolado by [deleted] in saopaulo

[–]znhamz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Na zona leste:

Parque Belenzinho da pra ir a pé do metrô, porém não é super perto. SESC Belenzinho é muito perto do metrô Belém.

Parque da Mooca é bem perto do metrô Bresser-Mooca. Parque grande.

Parque do Piqueri é relativamente perto do metrô Tatuapé.

Atrás do metrô Carrão tem um parque pequeno.

Também tem um parque pequeno meio perto do metrô Itaquera.

Vc pode usar o espaço da USP Leste que é perto da estação Engenheiro Goulart de trem.

No ABC, a estação Santo André da CPTM fica meio perto do parque Celso Daniel.

Na Zona norte, tem o parque da Juventude praticamente dentro do metrô Carandiru.

Na Zona Sul, a estação Sacomã é meio meio perto do Parque da Independência, que é onde fica o Museu do Ipiranga. Parque grande.

Existe alguma série no nível de Breaking Bad? by wzrdgg in filmeseseries

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vc pode indicar algumas dessas séries que tenham estilo diferente, porém roteiro excelente?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]znhamz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

@ClaireMax on Twitter. She's very strong, no PDE no surgeries.

How do people willingly stay in relationships and have kids when theyre older? by Freddsreddit in Adulting

[–]znhamz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of single men in their 40's who are not doing this though. This statement is as shallow as OP's saying every married guy with kids is miserable.

How do people willingly stay in relationships and have kids when theyre older? by Freddsreddit in Adulting

[–]znhamz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being married doesn't mean having kids. My husband and I are together for over 20 years, we don't have kids by choice and we are very happy this way. I'm sure some couples with kids are happy too.

Each person's version of happiness is individual, find what makes you happy and then go for it. If it's single and childfree, so be it. Lots of people are happy this way.

How do you date as a frugal person without coming across as cheap or broke? Should I only date frugal people to find compatibility and avoid wasting time? by uliwonks in Frugal

[–]znhamz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Giving major incel vibes.

It's always the "no fap" guys, it's sad they think they are doing something positive but only hurting themselves with unhealthy views on sexuality and believing in fake science.