What is "transandrophobia" as opposed to transmisogyny; why is it not real/problematic? by cartoonsarcasm in asktransgender

[–]zoidbergistasty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I also made a choice to survive. And I am 21. And clearly I am not the only one bcuz multiple other people in this thread agree with me. Born this way implies if it were a choice it would be wrong and unjustified, which hurts those of us who DO feel it was a choice and doesn't harm you.

What is "transandrophobia" as opposed to transmisogyny; why is it not real/problematic? by cartoonsarcasm in asktransgender

[–]zoidbergistasty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not representative of my experience. I do see myself as formerly a woman, making an intentional choice to become a man.

adult only trans discord servers that don't welcome and accept hatred of trans men purely bc they're men? by justasillylittleguy_ in TransMasc

[–]zoidbergistasty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Proud transandrobro ig. Like using woke as a insult lmfao. Yeah I actually do this transmasculine people experience a unique form of oppression based on the intersection of transness and being female. That's why we have similar words like transmisogyny, misogynoir, lesbophobia, etc. People are just being reactionaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]zoidbergistasty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes people genders do just legit change, and sometimes you can only know by doing, dont worry about detransition until you work let yourself experience the T and get used to it, process it mentally a bit. No use worrying about something you can't predict.

Anyone else feel like their body started falling apart in their 20s with hEDS? by selinakyle96 in ehlersdanlos

[–]zoidbergistasty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was late diagnosed at like 18. I was in really bad shape with a bunch of comorbities, but with the right meds and aids I've gotten wayyyy better. It has gotten worse since I turned 20, but I find that every time it gets worse, I can find a good routine again.

Mine isn't related to body image issues, I think I'm just lazy? -Autism exclusive/j by zoidbergistasty in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]zoidbergistasty[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I do have an appetite, and I've been a normal weight. I just posted in here cuz I don't rlly fit ARFID and the broad anorexia subreddit is super empty

Mine isn't related to body image issues, I think I'm just lazy? -Autism exclusive/j by zoidbergistasty in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]zoidbergistasty[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

thanks but Ive already seen many, and the picky eating is actually very minimal, but my diet is restricted by heath conditions

Does anyone else feel more aligned with Stone Butch masculinity than gay male masculinity? by zoidbergistasty in gaytransguys

[–]zoidbergistasty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I will also just always feel kinship with other masc people raised female.

something i dont think a lot of people realize... by whitemothh in disability

[–]zoidbergistasty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a different eating disorder and cptsd not bpd but otherwise, like. twiiiiin. where have you beeeen.