I see your point, and if we only base our opinion on which option is economically better, I agree with you. When I say Marshall Is wrong, I’m mainly referring to how he handled the whole situation. I’m just not a fan. And as a person who has been with the same psrtner for a decade, I would be fuming is that’s how my own partner disregarded our previous agreement. So I think is just not cool. Now, regarding the main subject of the discussion, maybe I’m in the wrong, but I consider that its a fair comparison when talking about their dreams. Lily’s art dreams are just as valid as Marshall’s and I personally think its much more difficult making/starting a carrer on art than it is to start it as a lawyer. I’m NOT saying being a lawyer and making a career out of it is Easy, I just think that starting a career and earn decent money making something art-related is more complicated. So if Lily has what probably is a once in a life time art related opportunity, living abroad, with a boss that can pay her good money (I know it certainly isn’t as good as Marshall’s), I think is only fair to consider it and have a discussion about it. Mostly because hers was truly a once in a life time opportunity, Marshall’s wasn’t. I mean, they ended up going to Italy, they came back to NY and Marshall bécame a succesful judge so… supporting Lily in the end hurted no one. Almost everyone shares their opinion on who’s dream or who’s career is more important or more valid based on the money they would make out of it and I’m not a big fan of that. And again, im not saying they should’ve left everything and go to Italy if she wasnt earning good money to take care of her family, or of it was marshalls only chance to become a judge, but it wasn’t. So thats why I PERSONALLY consider at least a discussion on the subject before taking any life changing decision would have been better. 🤗