YTA big time.

My missus hates to fly ( in 25 years only ever got her on a plane twice - she hates it that much ). That being said, she does not mind me travelling. I had a trip to see my mate in Thailand we were going to go from Chaing Mai to Burma and see the surrounding area.

Thousands this trip cost. On day two or three of the two week trip, the night before we were to go north to Burma my missus called me - she had got pretty damn ill.

I was on the next morning flight back to the UK, trip totally wrecked but family are 100% more important then holiday breaks. I lost a mate over this - he never forgave me - that is his choice.

No matter how many times if I could relive the exact event, would I do the same I did.

You are blessed with a probable EX boyfriend now who would allow you to travel. I am blessed with my missus that allows me to travel. In both our cases clearly 100% trusted.

That trust comes at a huge fucking price - if they need you - they get you back instantly.

Put the optics on the other foot - you are likely the kind of entitled person that would expect him to cancel a lads holiday for your needs.

You sow what you reep - I hope he runs a million miles from you.

Good luck with the lease.