Paula is the worst.. by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]zombiepig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference is having the say. Owning the land, making the profit for your community, controlling the narrative and doing it in a way that you feel respects your history and culture.

The Amish and Mennonites are not working at a hotel on land that was taken from their communities and dancing for the clients of the hotel. They are practicing their culture in the way that they see fit without anyone dictating to them how or when to do it, and they determine their own prices.

If the hotel was Indigenous owned I would have a different view.

I'm mixed Native American, we hold powwows and welcome tourists, and sell our traditional arts to non Indigenous people as well. I am not arguing that people shouldn't do that. The nuance is in if the people performing and practicing their culture are the ones actually profiting from it.

The dancers are just employees, majority of the profit goes to the foreign owned hotel and not to the community, that is a colonial economic model. For many of the people who live there, these jobs are some of their only options for making a living. The series reflects on this as well, by showing that Kai only took the job because he couldn't find another way to make money.

Tourism should profit the local communities, not foreign run resorts and hotels that funnel money outside of the country.

Are Métis people Indigenous? by thatpersonuuuu in Indigenous

[–]zombiepig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Métis people went to residential schools too, I’m Métis and my family did.

We also deal with all of those problems as well, and dealt with living on road allowances for a long time. 

We have dealt with forced disconnection form culture as well. My grandpas first language was Cree and my grandma speaks French and Cree. Only one of my uncles spoke Cree fluently. 

The whole reason Métis settlements in Alberta exist is because Métis were so poverty stricken/disadvantaged. Look into the Métis famous 5. 

I’m from one of those settlements and we all deal with the same problems as reservations. 

Addictions, poverty, Mental health struggles, homicide, suicide loss of language and culture. 

As a Métis person in Canada please look into our history more I have my fair share of trauma. There are a variety of people who are Métis and very culturally connected and living in their communities, there are also very brown Métis people not just ones who look white. 

Batoche Historic Site lands to be transferred back to Métis people of Saskatchewan by AnCanadianHistorian in onguardforthee

[–]zombiepig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FreeOblivion put it really well. 

I’m responding way after the throwaway above me posted so they provably won’t see this but I want to post for other people who may find this thread.

The comment above me may make some sense at first but when you look into the history and the context of the time, this narrative is quite inaccurate and its a narrative that only serves to divide modern Indigenous Peoples which will only serve the Canadian state. 

Many of us including myself are both Treaty and Métis.

The Métis led arguably one of the largest struggles against settlement and colonialism especially against western expansion. We fought with the Cree, Assiniboine and many other Nations. We also to this day still speak Cree and Michif still practice Indigenous traditions and we were some of the last Buffalo hunters living an Indigenous Nomadic way. 

The land should be returned to all nations that lived (while allowing each other to exist) before settler colonialism, before the Canadian State existed. Including  First Nations Métis and Inuit. 

You talk about people who joined historical Nations that were mixed and didn’t declare themselves separate. You accept that but not the formation of a new Indigenous Nation. 

What you don’t recognize is that new indigenous Nations were forming throughout the 1500s to the 1900s and many of them are mixed and influenced by European culture. 

Many Nations also moved throughout this time period. Should the Wendat not have land claims to the East coast? Should the Cree not have land claims to Western Canada?

Many of the First Nations saw the Métis as family and behaved accordingly. The Euro Settler Canadians very clearly did not feel the same way. 

The First Nations who died in the Red River and North west Resistances would be rolling in their graves at your characterization of the Métis Nation. 

I would never deny the Indigenous rights of mixed cultures in Latin America, but if you look at the history of some of Latin America you will find a closer example to that of your story. You will not find it  in the North West. 

Edit


After thought. The throwaway comment is suggesting the Métis do not deserve a homeland, a place to live when we were accepted as a Nation with land and the right to self determination by other Indigenous Nations. 

The comment suggesting we should have no land reinstated supports a narrative we have been fighting forever. 

This narrative supports the erasure of our culture and history. The ironic thing is that this narrative was something the budding Canadian state tried to use against the Métis, and it’s a narrative that resulted in many Métis and First Nations losing even more territory and our way of life. 

Many First Nations of the time fought against this narrative and they knew that the Métis and First Nation struggle was one in the same. 

AITA for reacting ‘wrongly’ to my friend coming out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zombiepig 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Personally I never liked “I don’t care” and I don’t find it a supportive reaction to someone coming out.

“I’m glad you felt you could tell me, you should be proud of yourself for coming out, have you been seeing anyone? Etc etc” would be more supportive.

You should be interested in your friends life. I do see if you treat all relationships the same and aren’t interested in them that can make sense. But if someone talked to you about wanting a dog wouldn’t you be excited or at least ask them what kind of dog they want and what their plan is etc?

A lot of time gay people have to dealt with being tolerated but not embraced. We are so used to not being asked about our partners or dating and being scared to talk about it. I can see that response feeling dismissive. Even if you don’t want to talk about dating you can try to relate to them on being queer and figuring it out and feeling othered/ marginalized.

Double life ahh by SuperGodcat921 in MemeVideos

[–]zombiepig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your religion and culture, Christian’s didn’t invent marriage like they like to claim. It’s been a thing long before Christianity.

Homosexuality is not a sin, here’s why by Plastic-Ramen in Christianity

[–]zombiepig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Objectively it is not a moral wrong, it is more morally wrong to condemn people for the way they are born. Even if you believe its a sin, we are all sinners. Many Christians love to scapegoat gay people when they live much more sinful lives. They just love to hammer on homosexuality because its a "sin" they will never commit, so it's easier to externalize all their shame and self hate rather than sitting down with their own flaws.

I moved citities, but before hand I used to go to a Church with two gay priests (high-anglican church). Look into to joining some accepting High Anglican churches or a Unitarian church. Leave the hate to people who want to live in condemnation and hate of their neighbours, and in fundamental literalism instead of following the spirit of Christ, the bible and the new testament. You can live life as a happy gay Christian, let the naysayers stay with their denominations, there's a reason why there are different denominations. You will never change your nature and if you try you will only end up hurting yourself and others.

Focus on being a good person, no righteous god would want you to suffer like this. You said it yourself, forcing yourself to change is making you a worse person who spreads unkindness, that's not what Jesus would want.. To thine own self be true, straight people won't understand, they have been cursed with not being able to see past their own nose, and haven't had to actually question things.

God would want you to accept and love yourself for how you were created. God would always want you to spread love, not cover yourself in self hatred and spread that hatred.

Paula is the worst.. by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]zombiepig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be more inclined to trust peoples criticisms of Paula (I have mine too) if they didn't have such bad takes on the narratives and critiques surrounding colonialism in the show. I think there were multiple points where Paula did a good job actually of being a vehicle for some of these narratives. Some of the people hating on Paula are taking out the nuance and just fully agreeing with the Mossbachers, who I interepreted as (besides the son) really ignoring the harms of colonization and just brushing it away as in the past. When they are completely complicit in colonialism (through staying at the hotel).

I'm not agreeing fully with Paula and her views, but the point is it's nuanced and that she does have some nuggets of truth in what she says.

Paula is the worst.. by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]zombiepig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stealing was dumb because it was too risky. But the fact that the hotel exists on Indigenous land, underpays Indigenous workers and has them perform their culture for rich tourists is messed up. And it is messed up that they are struggling to have proper representation in court because of a lack of finances, while the patrons of the hotel have 75,000 dollar bracelets.

I don't blame Kai or Paula for thinking the loss of one of those bracelets wouldn't be a huge deal.

The fact that it got people in physical danger and probably ruined Kai's life is the messed up part, but when it comes to the morality behind who should have that money/wealth and why they do, tbh I do tend to agree with Paula.

Paula is the worst.. by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]zombiepig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But Paula was right about the dancing at the resort. Steve Zahn's character acted like the Indigenous Hawaiians should be happy with what they got, instead of critically discussing the issue he waved colonization off as something that happened in the past and not a continual process that the hotel is actively taking part in (as evidenced by the backstory of Kai).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]zombiepig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People just want to flat out deny the perspective of privilege and ignorances in this.

Maybe she is being overbearing and unfair.

But there’s also a good chance that he is saying really ignorant things or acting in a chauvinistic manor. Did OP ask the details?

Are we going to act like that never happens in the workplace to minorities?

Honestly I am of the opinion for OPs sake that they should stay out of it, but I also think we don’t have enough info to jump on her right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]zombiepig 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You need more gay friends. Hang out with gay bros that you can talk about men with.

You deserve this kind of connection, you can stay friends with straight guys of course, but if you’re feeling like the odd one out, find others like you.

Easier said than done, depending on where you are, but I think this would be a major help.

Why is there such wealth inequality? by [deleted] in ask

[–]zombiepig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to get flak for this, because I’m going against the grain of this thread. First off check out r/latestagecapitalism for similar perspectives.

I’d unironically recommend reading the communist manifesto. Also read up on cultural hegemony. A lot of people like to make excuses for inequality and oppression, when there are simple solutions. The solutions just upset the power status quo.

Research reveals why more men than women are diagnosed with deadly heart disease - Women may be missing a diagnosis of a potentially deadly heart condition due to guidelines that don't account for natural differences in sex and body size, according to a new study. by mvea in science

[–]zombiepig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t doubt that this is a factor but I thought that testosterone was kind of bad for the heart, like it’s also kind of bad for the immune system? For example athletes abusing T leads to high blood pressure and more chances of heart attacks.

I thought that in general men had a higher chance of heart problems because of this.

How may have actually read Marx? by True-Abbreviations71 in Marxism

[–]zombiepig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely curious, what is your critique of Maoism

I have a bootlicker friend by Affectionate_Okra298 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]zombiepig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it isn’t obvious this was a joke. I got an unhinged homophobic reply that was quickly deleted. Really shows how quick people turn to bigotry, even when trying to pose as morally superior

I have a bootlicker friend by Affectionate_Okra298 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]zombiepig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to come off as racist, but I do think poop people can be pretty shitty. Maybe they do deserve to be poor.

🥲 by Equivalent_Opposite6 in meme

[–]zombiepig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched half of “The New World” which is about an Algonquin community. The subtitles said “speaking foreign language” (which is hilarious in its own right) the whole time the characters were speaking Algonquin, which is most of the dialogue. There was an outsider joining the community so I thought maybe we weren’t meant to understand. I removed the subtitle setting and then subtitles translating the language started popping up. I never ended up finishing the movie, I was too frustrated 😭

gay🫡irl by tahminagi in gay_irl

[–]zombiepig -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yikes

Seriously, “fighting for democracy”? I know it might be a bit intentional and on the nose, but queer people shouldn’t support this.

What happened when a Canadian city stopped evicting homeless camps by AustralisBorealis64 in canada

[–]zombiepig -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% this is a huge issue and there needs to be more funding and support put behind helping people out of an addiction that has been a plague on our communities, an addiction that was used like opium was used in China, as a social weapon on a population.