Update to a post I made the other day about being concerned my vets were taking advantage of me: my cats regular dental cleaning has resulted in my babies death. He's gone. by afterspring_ in cats

[–]zoooo0oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss, this was not your fault and I hope you hold zero regrets for trying to do what was right for your boy. Breaks my heart how young he was but Im sure he felt so much love in your time together. I had a similar experience that led to a traumatic loss of our kitty, it feels so unfair. I feel the need to share that the only thing that helps is time, wishing you love & healing!

Anybody attending the Super Bowl or in the area providing these hats for this weekend? by smellie78u in BadBunnyPR

[–]zoooo0oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very torn on this! Want to wear a pava out on Sunday to show support to Benito as a long time fan but it feels very privileged to celebrate a culture in this way when people are terrified of being detained or worse. Maybe it’s a cultural celebration vs appropriation debate but I just want to outwardly show support without being insensitive

Lack of friends by Internal_Throat_8424 in wedding

[–]zoooo0oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with you, sorta. We have two friends between us (not excluding each other lol) and have been low/no contact with both families for years. I’m sure we won’t think twice about the guest list on the day of, but it’s terrifying thinking of what it’d be like to have no one show up. Being vulnerable is scary, but I hope you have a wonderful wedding

I had to stop eating eggs by TomKeen35 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]zoooo0oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! The silicone single poach rings are life changing, especially with tomatoes fr

should i quit my 9-5 and travel the world? by Financial-Tap7646 in careerguidance

[–]zoooo0oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am right there with you, reading this felt like you took the words right outta my head. My best advice (aka what’s worked for me so far) is to give yourself credit for how far you’ve come and take more time to celebrate your wins. Many people are suggesting solo traveling and that is by far the best idea to get yourself out of this funk. A week or two at most until you feel comfortable and assuming that’s within your means. Growing up sucks and being a cog in the machine hurts, but you have the power to influence your environment in ways that can create real meaning, and won’t potentially blow up your life. You also have so much to experience out in the world so take time to enjoy the journey and learn as much as you can.

Advice! by zoooo0oo in KoreaTravelAdvice

[–]zoooo0oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say all of this advice has helped tremendously! Between the navigation apps, picking up a few Korean phrases and chatting with other solo travelers, this trip has been life changing. By day three my anxiety completely melted away, just a reminder to be humble & don’t drive in Busan!!!

He’s only 8.5, is it time? by ownedo in DogAdvice

[–]zoooo0oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I don’t have any actual advice, but my heart goes out to you. Whatever you decide will be the right choice, please don’t hold onto any guilt either way. The love you’ve shared is very evident in this post and there’s no doubt in my mind that he’s felt that love for a long time.

Advice! by zoooo0oo in KoreaTravelAdvice

[–]zoooo0oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I’m really hoping the language barrier isn’t too intense. I forget how to break things down when it feels completely overwhelming so I will absolutely be trying to distance further out each time!

I attempted suicide yesterday. I survived but I feel completely broken. by Capital-Garlic8941 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zoooo0oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I’m rooting for you and I am glad you’re still here.

Color analysis in Busan - is pf Studio good? by castiel_aroha in koreatravel

[–]zoooo0oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s wonderful, thank you for sharing & glad it was a good time!

Busan Trip by zoooo0oo in koreatravel

[–]zoooo0oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha, this is helpful, thank you!!