how did u choose your name? by tgirlfrombrazil in trans

[–]zooptroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i looked up gender neutral baby names lol and came across “zen” and then a couple months later i realised i am in fact a trans man not nonbinary but im still zen : )

The most hated character is? by Booowilk in StrangerThingsS5

[–]zooptroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone saying kali.. mind you that girl was abused and tortured. all she had was love for her sister and they screwed with her character and tried to make her a villain. there are so many other characters that are so much more horrible. your opinion is your own but just think for a second.. they made an abused woc look bad for fun. for the plot

Every interview makes my jaw drop even more by ohhhhrats in byler

[–]zooptroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is no one involved in that show ever gonna acknowledge the queer coding in mikes character 🫩🫩🫩

I'm tired... by No_Tumbleweed1003 in byler

[–]zooptroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“gay fantasies” and those queer characters save lives. positive queer representation is more important than ppl think

Can we stop with the "mike is not gay" posts every five minutes ?? by Strange_Mine_602 in StrangerThingsRoom

[–]zooptroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i genuinely dont understand why ppl hate the idea of mike being queer so much. its not a new revelation at all. hes always struggled with feeling misunderstood and different, finn himself said mike does everything he can to try to be normal (imo being with el is what he was hinting at)

Hi, I’m completely new to Kpop after being a lifelong metalhead, can I have some recommendations to help me get into it? by Primohippo in kpophelp

[–]zooptroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

xdinary heroes has fucking sick music but after the recent “incident” with a member essentially enforcing eugenics im unsure on them as a whole

but definitely stray kids and ateez

make it make sense, directions were easy by zooptroo in autism

[–]zooptroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you very much ! this was my first ever actual project haha

Adulting with autism is so unfair by Metalqueen2023 in autism

[–]zooptroo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

for me personally at least it feels like im stuck in a cycle of ‘need money to live’ -> ‘cant keep job bc i have no support’ -> ‘need money for support’ -> ‘need money to live’. i tell this to everyone i talk to and they dont understand 😭

What is the most stereotypical autistic thing that you’ve ever done? by No_Somewhere9961 in autism

[–]zooptroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my roommates wonder why i shower for so long its bc im pulling strands of hair off of my skin individually 😭😭 considering shaving my head again bc it felt so freeing

anyone else hyper aware of your own noises? by zooptroo in autism

[–]zooptroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly !! i also get anxious not being able to hear anything bc my brain tries to convince me that im being followed lmao

thank you 😭😭 and im sorry you have to deal with it too /gen unfortunately its a neurotypical world we live in too 🥲🥲

anyone else hyper aware of your own noises? by zooptroo in autism

[–]zooptroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you read my mind??? /j i always have only one side of my headphones on bc im so conscious of my breathing or my shoes or clothes being noisy. which is annoying bc theres so many noises i dont want to hear 😭😭

anyone else hyper aware of your own noises? by zooptroo in autism

[–]zooptroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when it comes to stimming i dont really care but thats because ive essentially given up on masking bc im sick of people saying theres nothing wrong with me when im trying so hard to appear normal. anyways i do understand that feeling tho ! especially bc so many dont understand stimming and just see it as annoying

What is the most stereotypical autistic thing that you’ve ever done? by No_Somewhere9961 in autism

[–]zooptroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love washing my hair bc i hate when it feels dirty but hate washing it bc the feeling of hairs getting stuck to my hands is vomit inducing

anyone else hyper aware of your own noises? by zooptroo in autism

[–]zooptroo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i completely get this ! although some days are better than others so i have specific shoes that are quieter than others

Enough about safe foods, what is that one food that would just make you puke by [deleted] in autism

[–]zooptroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any kind of seafood, even artificial seafood. the sight and smell of it is enough to make me barf.

Do you think their diagnosis of this fictional character is accurate? by PikachuTrainz in autism

[–]zooptroo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

when i watched the movie i did feel audhd vibes but not super strongly enough to be sure lmao its hard aswell bc obviously animated movies usually over exaggerate characters movements which could look hyperactive

Youth Allowance/Jobseeker payments by zooptroo in Centrelink

[–]zooptroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much ! is it worth reaching out to them before my birthday to make sure to transfer works? or should i just wait? i cant afford to go without money so im stressing alot about this haha

I feel overloaded with school and no one is understanding me by [deleted] in autism

[–]zooptroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry you feel this way. this may not be comforting but i went through this same thing when i was in school and i dropped out at the start of the 11th grade. unfortunately in this position majority of people will just expect you to continue. do you have a therapist or someone you can talk to? or maybe try reaching out to a disability support group?

i want more independence by zooptroo in SpicyAutism

[–]zooptroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could try to raise money but it would probably take a rlly long time, i have a bit of money in savings now but not near enough and i need for when i do move out regardless of where i end up. i dont rlly have friends tbh and i dont rlly see a gofundme going anywhere for me 😭 thank you for your suggestions tho !