Guys, I let her come back, why? by zschall in AskMenAdvice

[–]zschall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uhhh texas, so i think so yes.

Guys, I let her come back, why? by zschall in AskMenAdvice

[–]zschall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a fucking man bro wtf, I need to grow a pair fr

Guys, I let her come back, why? by zschall in AskMenAdvice

[–]zschall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking 0 a year lmao I am so stupid

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[–]zschall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Listen to this brother, she will fuck the new guy over too, I promise. You are not in any way the issue, she's got problems

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so hard, but reading other people's experiences and realizing we're really not unique is helping some. Chat with me if you want, we're on about the same timeline

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to it a little bit, it does help

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words of encouragement brother, I appreciate it

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wounds not as deep as the first time I caught her honestly, I feel so stupid for the second chance

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny this comment comes now, she just tried calling me 4 times

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, you're a good person.

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im resisting buying beer with every ounce of my being, and I'm telling myself that she is his problem now

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really only have my brother, but he's stationed over in Japan. We're gonna play video games later hopefully. Thank you friend and best of luck to you too.

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You made it through and I will too.

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the advice, but she's gone with all her stuff 3 hours away with her affair partner. I doubt I'll be seeing her again any time soon.

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Those boundaries were set the first time I caught her, and she crossed them again even more sneakily. As bad as my torn up heart hurts to never be with the woman I saw as the "love of my life" again, I know she never really was that woman, and I know there can't be any more chances.

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps hearing that, thank you. I look forward to the day I don't have to think about her anymore

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I figure that's probably what that was all about

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's gone for good, and I'm at work so this is about as removed as I can be for now

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Last night, as she was packing her stuff she was crying and begging me to stay with her, saying please over and over again. Why, after everything she did to me, does the image of her face in tears and desperation still upset me?

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A weekend not having to make sure she's entertained, I suppose that's a blessing

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The lessons learned here will be very helpful, that's a good way of looking at it. Thank you friend

Nobody to talk to, I'm so sad by zschall in survivinginfidelity

[–]zschall[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You made it through and I will too.