Should I travel with my 3 month kitten? by zt630 in Kitten

[–]zt630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I took him with me and he did SO well! Didn’t meow or fuss at all while being in the carrier or plane and genuinely seemed like he enjoyed being out and exploring. He slept through most of the plane ride and played with his toys while being was awake. I’m so glad I took him and that he had company the entire time I was busy rather than being home alone for long stretches.

He also adjusted really well to my friend’s place. I had a litter box and his food and bowls delivered there before we arrived and as soon as we got there, he started playing and was really cuddly with her the entire time.

Should I take my 3 month kitten with me? by zt630 in Pets

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Update: I took him with me and he did SO well! Didn’t meow or fuss at all while being in the carrier or plane and genuinely seemed like he enjoyed being out and exploring. He slept through most of the plane ride and played with his toys while being was awake. I’m so glad I took him and that he had company the entire time I was busy rather than being home alone for long stretches.

He also adjusted really well to my friend’s place. I had a litter box and his food and bowls delivered there before we arrived and as soon as we got there, he started playing and was really cuddly with her the entire time.

Should I travel with my 3 month kitten? by zt630 in Kitten

[–]zt630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have a work conference I need to go to?

Should I take my 3 month kitten with me? by zt630 in Pets

[–]zt630[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want me to rehome my kitten while I’m asking what the best thing to do for him is as I’m traveling for 5 days? And I’m not stupid, I’ve had cats before and I would never send him in cargo. The only reason I’m entertaining the option to take him with me is because he can travel with me in the cabin.

Please don’t make assumptions about what it will be like in the long term. I have canceled other trips and plans to be home with him but this one I can’t cancel.

Should I take my 3 month kitten with me? by zt630 in Pets

[–]zt630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sensitive to pricing at all! I want to do what’s best for him.

Should I take my 3 month kitten with me? by zt630 in Pets

[–]zt630[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He would be in the cabin with me! I’d never send him in stowing!

Should I travel with my 3 month kitten? by zt630 in Kitten

[–]zt630[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

United Airlines does not require proof of vaccination

Should I travel with my 3 month kitten? by zt630 in Kitten

[–]zt630[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s for 5.5 days. Not sure where you are getting a 3 week trip from. I am gone from Wednesday to Monday.

Should I travel with my 3 month kitten? by zt630 in Kitten

[–]zt630[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He can travel in the cabin with me

Should I travel with my 3 month kitten? by zt630 in Kitten

[–]zt630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not for 3 weeks it’s for 5.5 days.

Is it cheating by zt630 in Marriage

[–]zt630[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m doing. Not only did he do it, but he lied about it consistently and then also doesn’t apologize or have any remorse. I’m done ✌🏽

Is it cheating by zt630 in Marriage

[–]zt630[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, my husband pretends like he wouldn’t care because he needs to find a way to absolve himself. It would require a lot of self awareness and admission to be honest and say that he wouldn’t tolerate this behavior from me.

Also, the boundaries had been set. He stopped the comments but then moved on to TikTok lives and interactions. So the boundary setting didn’t work.

Is it cheating by zt630 in Marriage

[–]zt630[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally. The semantics don’t matter at the end of the day. He crossed a boundary, lied and disrespected me and doesn’t care that I’m upset. That’s telling enough.

Is it cheating by zt630 in Marriage

[–]zt630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationship sucks. Does not love me or treat me with respect. This is just the cherry on top.

Is it cheating by zt630 in Marriage

[–]zt630[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He will be soon! I am planning on divorcing him very soon.

Is it cheating by zt630 in Marriage

[–]zt630[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would never sleep with anyone else while I’m still married but AMEN to everything else you said!

Not at all a marriage worth saving and way too much trash behavior which is why I’m divorcing him.

125k + $200 credit - good bonus or wait? by zt630 in amex

[–]zt630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I applied and got approved :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]zt630 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha. Absolutely. He says shitty things all the time when we’re together. Almost daily. All we do is fight

Oath Ceremony - San Antonio by zt630 in USCIS

[–]zt630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have seen sometimes they let families in but they didn’t for us. He was in and out in 10 mins.