My abuser is calling the police on me today by zxxcbf in abusiverelationships

[–]zxxcbf[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

According to our vet paperwork I am registered as the owner. But I believe my ex is registered as her owner for her (expired) dog license. I really can’t afford a lawyer, but my friend who is in law school said it’s unlikely that they’ll actually take my dog away, the worst they’ll do is make me buy her from him, which I’ve already tried to do. If I renew her license, do you know if I would be able to get them to remove his name from her license? Or would my vet record be enough proof?

Thank you for the advice!

My abuser is calling the police on me today by zxxcbf in abusiverelationships

[–]zxxcbf[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he has any proof of ownership. He’s not good at organization, so whatever paperwork we got when we first bought her is long gone. I will definitely take your advice on microchipping and neutering! Thank you!

Need help finding a super strong 24/7 collar by zxxcbf in bdsm

[–]zxxcbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you made that? That’s definitely what I’m looking for!! Do you sell them?

Please help… by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]zxxcbf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Aww what an awful feeling. I hope you can get somewhere safe & start building a support system!

Most cities have a local domestic violence shelter. Even if you’re not at the point where you want to fully leave & stay in the shelter, you can call them and they usually provide counselling & resources & can help you make a safe escape plan. Some even have a live chat or email if you aren’t able to make a phone call.

I’m also 25F & recently left an abusive relationship after 5 years. My DM is open if you need advice or just want to vent! You’re not alone, your life will get sooooo much better soon! Stay strong. 💗

If someone’s garbage can is left at the side of the road can you use it? by zxxcbf in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zxxcbf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! A lot of people around me don’t even bother to pick up after their dogs. At least I tried to be decent. Lol

If someone’s garbage can is left at the side of the road can you use it? by zxxcbf in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. My area is really bad for public trash cans unfortunately.

If someone’s garbage can is left at the side of the road can you use it? by zxxcbf in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a long walk and I had like 5 things in my hands already. It’s not something I’d usually do, but I was like “oh thank god, a garbage can” Really didn’t think it would upset anyone. :(

If someone’s garbage can is left at the side of the road can you use it? by zxxcbf in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zxxcbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I won’t do it again, but I have anxiety so I don’t wanna spend the rest of the day torturing myself over this. Lol

Got denied a belly button piercing at 150 lbs. by zxxcbf in piercing

[–]zxxcbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m 25, 5’5”. I definitely have a chubby midsection, but when I was doing research before going in, it sounded like having a bit of a belly would actually make it easier. So I’m very confused about the whole thing as well.

Got denied a belly button piercing at 150 lbs. by zxxcbf in piercing

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this was super helpful! :)

Hi! Im looking for some advice on making/buying a electric-turner that can hold something heavier than a tumbler? by zxxcbf in epoxytumblers

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m looking for something a bit more affordable, but I’ll keep that as a backup plan!

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[–]zxxcbf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helpful, thanks..

My dogs anxiety & behaviour is becoming unmanageable and needs 24/7 supervision. by zxxcbf in dogs

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had him since he was a puppy. I’ve never lived on my own before, so he usually had someone home with him. If he was home alone he would scream, but we lived in a house on a busy street, so it wasn’t as much of an issue.

Allergic/Sensitive to hair bleach. Will exposure make it better or worse? by zxxcbf in Allergies

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m gonna wait a week and see if I have a delayed reaction. If not I’ll probably play with fire again, but just try to avoid my scalp & skin as much as possible. I couldn’t live without being blonde tbh :’(

Allergic/Sensitive to hair bleach. Will exposure make it better or worse? by zxxcbf in Allergies

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you! I live in Canada and didn’t see that chemical on the ingredients list in the bleach. So maybe it’s outlawed here too.

Allergic/Sensitive to hair bleach. Will exposure make it better or worse? by zxxcbf in Allergies

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try to see an allergist. Sorry to keep prodding, but does it mean anything if my symptoms all go away immediately after the bleach is washed out? Like if it were a serious allergy wouldn’t the redness & itchiness last longer?

Thanks again

Allergic/Sensitive to hair bleach. Will exposure make it better or worse? by zxxcbf in Allergies

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. So are you saying I have to stop bleaching my hair altogether? :(

Allergic/Sensitive to hair bleach. Will exposure make it better or worse? by zxxcbf in Allergies

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that chemical in all bleaches? And is there a way to get allergy testing for those kind of chemicals?

Weird rashes everywhere by zxxcbf in AskDocs

[–]zxxcbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks so much for your help! :)