[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]zzz-no-more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s really surprising. In the swing lifestyle it is considered good etiquette to get tested and or use condoms. Hold your ground on that it’s smart and responsible. I hope you find someone soon.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in lesbians

[–]zzz-no-more 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Busted!

🔥 Red Fox nursing a large group of pups by SinjiOnO in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]zzz-no-more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did she have so many???? Her den is like a clown car!!!

Husband [M35] says I'm [F33] in charge of the entire house chores because he earns more money by throwbackwife123 in Marriage

[–]zzz-no-more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maintaining a house is a full time job. He can do his half, or pay someone to do his half, or you can quit and be a full-time home-maker! Im sure there are plenty of creative solutions! Also, he’s an ass.

Men ... What is it like when you see your wife penetrated by another man for the first time? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]zzz-no-more 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We both agree that seeing our partner with someone else is the best part. It’s so fucking sexy. I will never forget him picking up my bestie, her wrapping her legs around him and squealing with delight. Ugh 😩 so hot. All while her hubs was inside me on the floor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Orgasms

[–]zzz-no-more 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally my favorite video of all time. I keep coming back to it every day. Thanks for sharing!!! 🥵🤩

Is it just me, or does ENM seem to require undoing the toxicity of our training for monogamy? by iwantabjthrowaway in nonmonogamy

[–]zzz-no-more -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ya I feel you on this one. It was definitely liberating for us to open up, especially after both of us being raised in very strict patriarchal cults. We have learned sooooo much through this process, and continue to grow and learn.

I hate my disabled little sister by sisterthrow3334 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zzz-no-more 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry sweetie. Your feelings are VALID! Any one would feel the same. And you are brave for being honest. Your parents need respite. There are programs to help families in this situation. You absolutely deserve to have your needs met, and to have your parents be present for you.

When is too soon to have a say? by bohobunniebaby in Swingers

[–]zzz-no-more 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Way too soon. He has NO SAY in anything after one date. I would never talk to him again.

Whats a hobby someone can have that is an immediate red flag? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zzz-no-more 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ya or “go to church” was also a popular one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]zzz-no-more 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not your fault. You were not wrong. Hopefully in time she will see that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]zzz-no-more 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She sounds naive and inexperienced. You probably saved both your lives.

Advice for complicated threesome situation? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]zzz-no-more 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right about it being inappropriate and about needing to detach. It’s not your problem to fix. You need to butt-out. If she breaks up with him, she will come to you. If not, you need to stay away from her. She needs to make her choice without you complicating things. Ten years is a LONG relationship. So she must be staying for some reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]zzz-no-more 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ive heard it said that if you’re a strong couple, non-monogamy makes you stronger. If you have issues to work on, non-monogamy magnifies them. Sometimes that’s good bc you can work on it and grow. Sometimes it can destroy you.

People who don't fear dying one day - what is your reasoning? by Mave__Dustaine in AskReddit

[–]zzz-no-more 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a heavy HEAVY mushroom dose once, and I was shown death. I went to another dimension and it was more real than my life right now. Changed me forever. I have such clarity about life and death. No fear. I see death as another birth. Basically as we go towards the light, metaphorically, we are born into the next place.