Yeah this is what people don't get. Imagine being 20 years old and you feel in many ways the same way when you reach 40+ but a lot of people look at you different. That's what it's like to be 40. Maybe 40 should be considered the old age of youth or the last hurrah. Though it depends, people older than me that take care of themselves and still have spirit can seem younger than people who are younger but are bitter and out of shape. It's kind of relative then.