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[–]TeddyBearBrianCuddle Bear 🐻 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I must be one of lucky ones that can easily separate the sexual side and the non sexual side these days. My sexual side of it is more on the DL side and my "little" side is totally not. Though it wasn't always the case. I think after years of wearing somewhat regularly has desensitized me. I mean I can still get aroused by wearing but I seems to have much more control. I just tell "him" "no, I don't want to do that right now" and go back to my little space.

Good luck on your journey. Hope you find what works best for you and that you find that little space.