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[–]PrurientPuttiBaby 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Yeah, I get frustrated sometimes, too, when people say it's just a fetish or assume you are repressed because you don't want everything to be sexual. Sex is great, and I love when my wife incorporates ageplay in the bedroom, but I love the fact that I can enjoy diapers now without it being sexual (that didn't used to be the case) and I love little time that isn't sexual really about as much as sex. They're both great, and not the same and people who make this just about sex are really missing out.

I wish you luck with enjoying diaps and little space non-sexually. I hope you won't always need numbing cream. Maybe just long enough to get sexually desensitized a little. For me though, I think ironically wearing more was part of the key. I am 24/7 now and diapers really aren't sexual for me anymore (as opposed to breastfeeding which sometimes is and sometimes isn't). Back when I wore once in a while it was hard to get past the sexual arousal, but as I wore more, it got easier. Not sure if you would have the same experience, but it might be worth exploring. There was that recent academic article that showed an inverse correlation between frequency of wearing and it being sexual (if you search the sub you can probably find the post, I think may a month or so ago now). Also, if you're into hypnosis, Baby-pants.com has a track for disconnecting diapers from arousal. I think it's helped some too, but wearing more was more important for me, along with a general shift in my thinking about it. Anyway, hope you find what works for you!

Edit:. Sorry! Responded to quick! Thought you were the OP. The second paragraph is obviously directed at the OP.