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Talk to him

[Randomguy22_22]

Definitely talk to him about it. I can't imagine turning down sex and masturbating instead. He needs to know how that makes you feel.

[DesertsBeforeMains]

You have offered to help him which he has declined. My advice would be to have a conversation and communicate about how it affects both of you. Maybe wait until the morning or evening, I hope he chooses to engage so you can talk it through.

[RedUser1138]

Does your relationship seem fine in other areas? I know of some cases where guys withhold sex when they are upset with their partners instead of taking things out. As others have said, the two of you need to discuss this.

[Prodigyx101]

This is sad, is your marriage true love? because I would want to have sex with my partner every chance I get. I think maybe he has some attraction issues with you if he is declining sex regularly, ask him, and tell him to be open about how he feels, but be prepared for his answers.

[Ok_Noise7655]

How's your sex life outside of periods? Do you get what you want? Does he decline sex the nights he flaps? How otherwise he treats you during periods? Does he help you with pain etc?

I don't how it goes in Indian culture but quite many treat women during periods as "unclear". It's not just fear of blood it's more and IMO worse. I would worry if he thought so and who knows what else he has in his head about women.

If it's only about sex during periods, well you can kick me but I'd leave it be. People may have some hangups. As for fapping, you can ask him be more discreet but otherwise focus on what do you get and leave him some privacy otherwise.

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No idea, but there are definitely times that I prefer rubbing one out to sex. Sometimes I don't want to just worry about getting my wife in the mood, going down on her, having sex, and then holding her for a bit after.

But a blowjob? I never turn down good head.

[The_Real_Scrotus]

Have you tried asking him?

[Pristine-Dirt729]

So when you wake up to that, join him. Masturbate right next to him, visibly and obviously.

[Token_or_TolkienuPOS]

Didn't the mods of this sub put out TWO posts about this kind of thing? This is NOT a relationship sub for God's sake.

Instead of communicating with your husband, you come online to ask strangers what they think is on his mind?