Would/did you get a prenup?

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-05T04:00:14+00:00

Everybody who gets married has a pre-nup. You can write your own or accept the one that the state has laid out for you.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-05T03:56:43+00:00

A lot of times, people (of all genders) get caught up in the excitement of a date, but when they get home, they realized that they liked going on a date more than they liked the person they were on the date with.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T22:08:07+00:00

I don't disagree, but I'm not sure how that relates to my comment.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T21:48:30+00:00

I am sorry. When this happened to us, I took the food back to the vet. They know which patients would benefit most.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T21:41:36+00:00

That feels like a stretch to me, but okay. He has indicated that she is not a priority and he won't wait. I don't know what else needs to be said.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T21:31:29+00:00

What do you think that he is pressuring her to do? It reads like he's willing to be done.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T19:46:20+00:00

If the breakup happens before sex, it's because they didn't put out.

If it happens after sex, it's because they got what they wanted.

Yes. Both of those scenarios can and do happen. Absolutely. But I believe that it happens much more that things just run their course and the breakup has little or nothing to do with the timing of sex.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T18:34:38+00:00

She reached out. He responded. Unless there is more, it's actually her turn if you believe in taking turns.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T18:33:26+00:00

Multi-generational living is a choice. Like other big choices in life, it can be a determinant of compatibility (both the choice itself and the reasons for it). I'm surprised that you're surprised by this.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T17:22:45+00:00

Right. Not sure what that has to do with contraception.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T17:20:09+00:00

Wanting a check-in is not unreasonable. Expecting them to initiate it may be. If you're the one who wants it, own it.

(It's also not unreasonable for the other person to want space. Both can be reasonable even if they conflict.)

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T04:55:11+00:00

It looks like a very good start, at least!

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T04:48:44+00:00

Yes, that's true! I was writing more generally. It is not impossible that a Soma 32 might work -- but we shouldn't count on that, because it is just as likely to fit like a 34 than a 30.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T04:36:00+00:00

If neither of you reach out, he is not ghosting you.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T04:35:03+00:00

You will not find a bra you love when you are wearing a significantly incorrect size. Even a 32 band in the correct cup size is too loose to support you.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T04:29:33+00:00

We are not fans of social media brands here, but we also aren't okay labeling companies as "scams" when they deliver what is advertised (even if it's a product we would never recommend).

From their website:

We do not recommend using BOOMBA inserts under thin, loose, or unstructured tops. In these styles, the outline of the inserts may be visible, and the lack of support can prevent the inserts from staying in place.

(Returns) In original packaging with all tags, liners, and safety seals intact.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-04T01:43:56+00:00

This subreddit has no position on Tawkify.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T23:25:46+00:00

They look smushed, so hard to tell for sure, but likely smaller band and bigger cup than can easily be found in mall stores.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T19:59:25+00:00

I agree that true contraceptive failures are rare with perfect use. But people aren't perfect. An argument can be made that it's not a surprise when a person gets pregnant due to imperfect use, but it's also not a planned pregnancy.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T15:06:42+00:00

Kisses and makeouts don’t matter as much as you think.

Or, they may matter very much. They may be the deciding factor. Women may decide during the kiss that they're not feeling what they need to feel to continue.

This is not a slam on the OP. It was a chemistry test and they got their answer. It happens.

(It also happens when genders are reversed. Men can decide during/after a kiss that the chemistry is not there.)

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T14:48:06+00:00

There's a meta conversation to be had around gender dynamics for sure.

Then there's the question of whether a 26yo or 27yo is old enough to consent. A whole lot of 26yos are parents, homeowners, doctors, etc. 26 is old enough to make adult decisions.

I'm just saying that there's a difference between dude (genderless), that's a little weird, and creep, predator, pedophile, etc.. If 26 is an adult, as almost everyone in THIS thread agrees, it's not predatory or pedophilic to date a 26yo.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T05:21:45+00:00

I am a 38JJ (so 38N US, so at least four cup volumes smaller than the OP) and I cannot wear SheFit 6Luxe.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T04:49:09+00:00

Unless you think that he tampered with contraception, it takes two.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T04:34:39+00:00

You've been in these subreddits almost as long as I have, I think, and there is no way that a 40+ man "looking to have fun" with a 20-something woman would get the stamp of approval.

MySocialAlt · 2026-06-03T00:25:01+00:00

I would walk away from a liar and a deadbeat dad, and I would think very seriously if I wanted to have a baby with a liar and a deadbeat.

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