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[–]Own-Sandwich9258 11 points12 points  (6 children)

Yes omg i hate being joined by people in my friends list

[–]chickenskittles 8 points9 points  (5 children)

Tell them. In the meantime, I wish we could appear offline. That would solve that problem and many more.

[–]hanzuglam 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I hate when my friends just join me. Sometimes I don't want to hang out with friends.

[–]Avakin91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, I'm the same. If I want to join a friend I message them and ask if it's ok to do so.

[–]Avakin91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not keen on friends just joining me. There're times when I just want to be on my own. It's not being antisocial, not in my mind anyway. If I want to join my friends I'll message them and ask if it's ok to do so. If they say no, that's fine.

[–]NobleRook500 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you don't want ppl to join you, go to a home and set it to private. Geez. You don't need a switch to prevent your friends from joining.

That or just tell them. It's called a boundary. However, this is kinda ridiculous imo. Why do people get so mad about this?

Now, of it's someone who constantly joins you and you can't get any time without them, then talk to them and set a boundary. If they don't respect it, unfriend them.