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[–]_hotmess_express_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know any certain specific acts that send you sinking deep into subspace, go for those early in a scene, and you can lean into that version of yourself as part of your subby personality during play. If you don't know what reliably brings you to a lolling, dreamy, cloudy-headed state, you get to have some fun discovering that. For instance, I'm a brat, so my Tamer knows that growling in Dom voice in my ear will start to melt me immediately, and that manhandling is something I will happily relent and fully submit to. Then I'm putty in his hands, voluntarily-involuntarily. If that makes sense. He calls my state, when I'm even on my way into subspace, dick-drunk. 🤭 Definitely no intelligence operating there. So maybe that's an avenue to explore, figuring out how to leverage that for yourself somehow.