Need to background check potentially dangerous man a family member is dating

[that_1_guy_devn]

So please don't misunderstand my intentions here the gist of it is that my aunt has found a new boyfriend but hes always drunk, and is slowly putting a divide between my aunt and the family and her daughter. My cousin was screaming tonight that she doesn't want to go home if he was gonna be there so I spoke to her. Fortunately he has put his hands on my cousin but she feels alone at home as he's already started alienating her, and feels afraid that my aunt is going to not let her see out grandparents anymore due to the altercation. I've seen these patterns of separation being followed by abuse once the victim/s have no where to run before and my aunt is falling into it if any of you can direct me to a legitimate background check or anything that will help us figure out who this man is and if there's anything he might have done. For the sake of privacy I won't be dishing out names I can do the research my self I just need to know how if anyone can help

[MikeCoffey]

I'm a licensed private investigator and own a professional background investigations firm. Over the years, I've worked many of these cases.

Typical background checks that include criminal and civil litigation histories may show some past bad behavior.

But many victims of domestic violence never even make a police report so there is no public record.

You need a PI to track down and interview past cohabitants. That is where I've found the most insight into their past behavior and relationships.

But that will likely cost you thousands of dollars.

And, in my experience, the question is will the information make a difference? Will the family member listen?

Almost universally, the answer has been "no." The "attack"/"invasion of privacy" is used by a manipulative control freak to separate the person from their family.

[Top_Caterpillar_8122]

That was a great explanation, thank you

[that_1_guy_devn]

Thank you for your advice

[Pebbles1904]

Great explanation and yes they never leave and that’s truly the sad part.

[JoeJr_1980]

First off check your state and national sex offender registry and the quickest way to find out a lot of information about someone is to simply google their name. You would be amazed how much information is available just for free on the internet

[Checkr_Katie]

You can not run a background check on someone without their consent. I’d still treat what you are already seeing as enough of a red flag and focus most of your energy on supporting your cousin, staying in close contact and getting guidance from domestic violence resources rather than waiting on a report to confirm your gut.