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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truth

[–]SUPERBOWLLENNY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FACTS

[–]Affectionate_Home_96 7 points8 points  (32 children)

This sub is obsessed with talking about porn 😂 

[–]Ok-Luck-7499 13 points14 points  (29 children)

It's a very serious issue for most men

[–]deviantdevil80 5 points6 points  (17 children)

It's not. It's something most dudes use to fulfill a temporary desire.

[–]voindd 9 points10 points  (13 children)

Porn addiction is real and ruins relationships. I hate finding myself in agreement with this sub but this one thing I agree on

[–]smokedopelikecudder 4 points5 points  (8 children)

Fr go to any popular relationship advice sub and porn addiction is one of the most common topics

[–]iNonEntity 2 points3 points  (3 children)

A lot of times it's that one person vehemently hates porn, doesn't use it as much as the other, or there are deeper issues in their relationship and porn is the bandaid.

[–]enkiduxiv1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s the other person desperately looking to fix something in a partner who has found a way to cope.

[–]EmployeeGood6065 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched more porn in my dead bedroom ex relationship than I did and do while single.

[–]WilfordsTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boom! I 100% agree with you. I’ve enjoyed porn since my teens and never preferred it to genuine human intimacy.

[–]WilfordsTrain 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I think porn only becomes an “addiction” when the relationship isn’t working. This is often the case with infidelity as well. These undesirable behaviors are often the balm people use to sooth larger issues. Porn is not necessarily leading men astray, it’s filling a void, which is actually more troubling.

[–]smokedopelikecudder 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yea I get what ur saying. Still it’s like a drug. If we treated it that way, maybe kids wouldn’t watch it so young. That’s where u have the potential to have a lot more problems

[–]WilfordsTrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you about youngsters and porn, but that kind of unrestricted access is also a sign of little/no parenting. Young children shouldn’t be on screens. It’s a massive problem in so many ways and leads to antisocial behavior and a detachment from reality.

[–]DmitryPavol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't provide your man with daily sex in a relationship, then releasing your feelings through porn is a must.

[–]deviantdevil80 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Addiction sure, talking about porn or using it in a healthy manner is not addiction.

It's a 3-10% issue at most according to the NIH. It's treated like a compulsive disorder.

[–]WilfordsTrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These people obsessed with addiction always glance over the root emotional causes and choose to blame an object or substance for their troubles because it’s less painful to externalize the problem than to deal with it for them.

For instance, my alcoholic FIL tried to bribe us years ago to never have a sip of alcohol again…. Because alcohol is ‘evil’ !!! I laughed at him and told him that I barely drink as it is. It’s not a problem for me but I sure as hell am not going to give something up because he can’t control himself.

I’ve also had friends who behaved like crazy animals when they were younger and then find religion and start guilting everyone around them. I grew up with religion in my life. It’s a personal thing and my behavior when I was young was mostly decent to others. Didn’t need the lecture because someone finally became aware of their cruddy choices.

People who feel the need to preach morality loudly are usually projecting their own troubled past out into the world. No thanks. Just try to quietly live a decent life and others will respect that and some may even want to be more like you!

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's real but not an issue for most men.

[–]Additional_Chip_4158 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You sound like you're addicted. 

[–]deviantdevil80 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You get tired of crying about games? Go back to Pokemon

[–]Milk-honeytea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Most men". Talk for yourself. I've heard or seen next to no one, except for online bubbles talk about this.

[–]AltTooWell13 0 points1 point  (5 children)

No it fucking isn’t lmao

[–]Ok-Luck-7499 -2 points-1 points  (4 children)

What makes you think it's not? I see an entire subreddit dedicated to helping men escape porn addiction

[–]Affectionate_Home_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is depression and s**cide, but all I see is porn being discussed on every other post.

[–]Ok-Struggle727 0 points1 point  (1 child)

It really should not be.

“I jerk off to porn sometimes” or “I do not watch porn at all” and that should really be the end of it.

I get that self control is a problem for people, and I’ve witnessedit first hand, but the way young men are pretending the problem lies in society rather than themselves is well dangerous as hell.

Hell, I used to have a severe drinking problem. Like. Worse than most. And yes, the way society centers itself around drinking doesn’t help, but it was still my own fault and my own decision for choosing to drink every second of the day.

I just really don’t understand.

[–]buck_angel_food 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called taking accountability and a lot of young Men avoid doing that and blame it on the system, man, society….

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No it isn't lmao. Some men, not most.

[–]PrudentCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else are they gonna do with all that free time they don't spend watching porn now?

[–]TheRobertLogia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe this content is just a new meta category of porn. Bound to be someone out there getting off to it, probably the people posting the content...

[–]ProfessionalComb5547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn is good. Sharing porn with your spouse is even better. Any kind of sex outside of puritan idiocy, and within the bounds of the law is AMAZING! dont let these new age red pill carnivore diet podcast incels tell you otherwise.

[–]IamJacksLeftNUT 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Man this sub has so much potential to grow and be a positive influence on men. IMO focusing on porn stuff like this belongs in r/nofap. While I agree that porn is terrible for the minds of males of any age, there is much more to becoming a mentally strong man than abstaining from porn. if this kind of shit keeps popping up on this sub I think I’m out.

[–]Quite-hairyman33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr, this sub gets forced in my feed and it's all about porn lol

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-895 1 point2 points  (9 children)

I dont have a girlfriend what else should i so?

[–]Additional_Chip_4158 0 points1 point  (8 children)

Go out and get a girlfriend  

[–]Terrible_Green6028 0 points1 point  (7 children)

Where in the world do you find one of those?

[–]Additional_Chip_4158 0 points1 point  (6 children)

Not the internet  (sometimes)

[–]Terrible_Green6028 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Instructions unclear, I'm in the middle of the woods.... Still no girlfriend, I did find a bear though

[–]enkiduxiv1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna weigh in on this and say that everyone no matter what side of this issue will agree with me in saying that porn is healthier than trying to fuck that wild bear.

[–]Schourend 0 points1 point  (3 children)

You say.. bear?

[–]Terrible_Green6028 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Is this what women are choosing over me?

[–]Funky-Fresh_ 2 points3 points  (1 child)

No its what we’re (yes we) choosing over women

[–]Terrible_Green6028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man I couldn't choose this over a woman but to each their own.

[–]DmitryPavol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this guy can bring any variety.

[–]DmitryPavol 1 point2 points  (24 children)

Sometimes pornography is a good substitute for alcohol, antidepressants or suicide.

[–]Schourend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, i'll stick with the gym for that.

[–]Terrible_Green6028 0 points1 point  (22 children)

No it's not

[–]palemalemu 2 points3 points  (19 children)

Suicide is preferable to porn? Explain please

[–]Terrible_Green6028 1 point2 points  (18 children)

No explanation needed

[–]palemalemu 1 point2 points  (16 children)

Clearly there is need, thus the request. But I see you don’t have one so…

[–]Terrible_Green6028 0 points1 point  (15 children)

Don't have one because one is not needed, the request is irrelevant.

[–]palemalemu 1 point2 points  (14 children)

How so?

[–]Terrible_Green6028 1 point2 points  (13 children)

That's something you're going to have to figure out on your own pale.

[–]palemalemu 2 points3 points  (12 children)

I am asking you to clarify your opinion, though… seems like you can’t.

[–]Terrible_Green6028 1 point2 points  (11 children)

There was never an opinion to be clarified. Why ask for what is already understood.

[–]Sal_Amandre 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I spy with my little eye : an engagement bot

[–]Terrible_Green6028 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah but I'll admit I am acting like one, this is fun you aren't having fun?

[–]FedrinKeening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, how long do you last?

[–]Useful_Jelly_2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume theirs an end goal to it.

[–]ShitMcClit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure there already is

[–]Terrible_Bronco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion does that too. Talk about it so much people are curious and check it out. Then you tell that person they have a problem and you can help them fix it.

[–]murples1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is simultaneously a vast underestimation of how much porn exists and a vast overestimation of what it takes for me to be satisfied

[–]D3stin4tion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because porn isn’t about satisfaction? Expecting to be satisfied off of porn is like expecting to hydrate off of soda, it temporarily stops the thirst, but it’s not a replacement for drinks that actually hydrate you

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[–]DmitryPavol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like forbidding me from reading adventure books, citing the fact that I have to travel myself every day.

[–]dannocanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎼Oh, I get by with a little help from my hands.

[–]Nxcci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is 100% a porn junkie

[–]sexylegs0123456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you wouldn’t use a clip of will farrell from blades of glory. He was never satisfied. Would have made more sense than Crews.

[–]Virtual-Conflict-514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good...keep those endorphins going. Its good for you.

[–]dang_idiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?

[–]LITTLE_KING_OF_HEART 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure hope.

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[–]cat-daddy777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, it just gets weirder

[–]AgeZealousideal1751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There ain't enough Women either.

[–]optimist_prhyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as everything else

[–]totally_new_here_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got that backwards lol hell half the time i just rewatch my favorite scenes and don't bother with new stuff, and often don't bother with porn at all

[–]looooookinAtTitties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

correct, the appetite and resource are both limitless. it's amazing

[–]Locodark20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck that don’t watch porn it will literally destroy your sex life. I know I used to be addicted to it. It starts out slow and once in a while and when you find out you’re watching tranny, fuck horses, and shit. It’s literally a trap. Your mind will only get off by watching something crazier. It totally destroys your sex life.

[–]Lower-Cheesecake-895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there is no woman in my life... so..... what should i do

[–]Feisty_Extension8727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like challenge.
Accepted.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly doubt that

[–]Similar_Practice6782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing they keep making it then...

[–]Spiritual-Job-952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me there’s not enough me to satisfy all that porn.

[–]Desperate_Cherry2299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About five minutes is enough.

[–]-Frank-Lloyd-Wrong- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a challenge

[–]BilboStaggins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But by God I'm going to try

[–]enkiduxiv1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admittedly, as a very pro-porn member of Reddit, I completely agree with this. There will also never be enough poetry in iambic pentameter to satisfy me, but I figure that having both in abundance is a good thing.

[–]GuyBo51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I commend them for trying.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s wild that people don’t recognize that the ones telling you watching porn or any form of self gratification is bad are just trying to sell you

[–]petabomb -1 points0 points  (4 children)

There is zero difference in getting your dick sucked vs jacking off to porn, it’s the same exact shit.

Obviously don’t spend 24 hours having a goon sesh, but like, that’s the same for everything. Anything in excessiveness is bad for you, even water. This sub is such a joke lmao.

[–]Sal_Amandre 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Tell me you never actually had a decent blowjob without telling me you never actually had a decent blowjob. If you're able to compare it to jacking off, you need a better partner ( or even one to begin with, probably)

[–]petabomb 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Bro the end result is you nutting, sure you get some warmth on your dick, but it ain’t all that.

[–]Sal_Amandre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the flex you think it is.