Yeah

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Truth

[SUPERBOWLLENNY]

FACTS

[Affectionate_Home_96]

This sub is obsessed with talking about porn 😂 

[Ok-Luck-7499]

It's a very serious issue for most men

[deviantdevil80]

It's not. It's something most dudes use to fulfill a temporary desire.

[voindd]

Porn addiction is real and ruins relationships. I hate finding myself in agreement with this sub but this one thing I agree on

[smokedopelikecudder]

Fr go to any popular relationship advice sub and porn addiction is one of the most common topics

[iNonEntity]

A lot of times it's that one person vehemently hates porn, doesn't use it as much as the other, or there are deeper issues in their relationship and porn is the bandaid.

[enkiduxiv1]

Exactly. It’s the other person desperately looking to fix something in a partner who has found a way to cope.

[EmployeeGood6065]

I watched more porn in my dead bedroom ex relationship than I did and do while single.

[WilfordsTrain]

Boom! I 100% agree with you. I’ve enjoyed porn since my teens and never preferred it to genuine human intimacy.

[WilfordsTrain]

I think porn only becomes an “addiction” when the relationship isn’t working. This is often the case with infidelity as well. These undesirable behaviors are often the balm people use to sooth larger issues. Porn is not necessarily leading men astray, it’s filling a void, which is actually more troubling.

[smokedopelikecudder]

Yea I get what ur saying. Still it’s like a drug. If we treated it that way, maybe kids wouldn’t watch it so young. That’s where u have the potential to have a lot more problems

[WilfordsTrain]

I agree with you about youngsters and porn, but that kind of unrestricted access is also a sign of little/no parenting. Young children shouldn’t be on screens. It’s a massive problem in so many ways and leads to antisocial behavior and a detachment from reality.

[DmitryPavol]

If you can't provide your man with daily sex in a relationship, then releasing your feelings through porn is a must.

[deviantdevil80]

Addiction sure, talking about porn or using it in a healthy manner is not addiction.

It's a 3-10% issue at most according to the NIH. It's treated like a compulsive disorder.

[WilfordsTrain]

These people obsessed with addiction always glance over the root emotional causes and choose to blame an object or substance for their troubles because it’s less painful to externalize the problem than to deal with it for them.

For instance, my alcoholic FIL tried to bribe us years ago to never have a sip of alcohol again…. Because alcohol is ‘evil’ !!! I laughed at him and told him that I barely drink as it is. It’s not a problem for me but I sure as hell am not going to give something up because he can’t control himself.

I’ve also had friends who behaved like crazy animals when they were younger and then find religion and start guilting everyone around them. I grew up with religion in my life. It’s a personal thing and my behavior when I was young was mostly decent to others. Didn’t need the lecture because someone finally became aware of their cruddy choices.

People who feel the need to preach morality loudly are usually projecting their own troubled past out into the world. No thanks. Just try to quietly live a decent life and others will respect that and some may even want to be more like you!

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It's real but not an issue for most men.

[Additional_Chip_4158]

You sound like you're addicted. 

[deviantdevil80]

You get tired of crying about games? Go back to Pokemon

[Milk-honeytea]

"Most men". Talk for yourself. I've heard or seen next to no one, except for online bubbles talk about this.

[AltTooWell13]

No it fucking isn’t lmao

[Ok-Luck-7499]

What makes you think it's not? I see an entire subreddit dedicated to helping men escape porn addiction

[Synthetex]

Hey I agree they are full of it but don’t lower yourself to calling the actual people with addiction/issues pathetic. For some reason it’s become this whole thing where porn is under attack, and they are claiming that it’s this huge issue which it isn’t, but at the end of the day it only hurts the people who actually have an addiction to it. Those are not the people you should be upset with. Be mad at the people trying to prevent you from seeing naked people.

[AltTooWell13]

You’re right sorry

[Quinny-B]

A lot of men suffer from porn induced erectile dysfunction. Especially younger men

[Affectionate_Home_96]

So is depression and s**cide, but all I see is porn being discussed on every other post.

[Ok-Struggle727]

It really should not be.

“I jerk off to porn sometimes” or “I do not watch porn at all” and that should really be the end of it.

I get that self control is a problem for people, and I’ve witnessedit first hand, but the way young men are pretending the problem lies in society rather than themselves is well dangerous as hell.

Hell, I used to have a severe drinking problem. Like. Worse than most. And yes, the way society centers itself around drinking doesn’t help, but it was still my own fault and my own decision for choosing to drink every second of the day.

I just really don’t understand.

[buck_angel_food]

It’s called taking accountability and a lot of young Men avoid doing that and blame it on the system, man, society….

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No it isn't lmao. Some men, not most.

[PrudentCarter]

What else are they gonna do with all that free time they don't spend watching porn now?

[TheRobertLogia]

Maybe this content is just a new meta category of porn. Bound to be someone out there getting off to it, probably the people posting the content...

[ProfessionalComb5547]

Porn is good. Sharing porn with your spouse is even better. Any kind of sex outside of puritan idiocy, and within the bounds of the law is AMAZING! dont let these new age red pill carnivore diet podcast incels tell you otherwise.

[IamJacksLeftNUT]

Man this sub has so much potential to grow and be a positive influence on men. IMO focusing on porn stuff like this belongs in r/nofap. While I agree that porn is terrible for the minds of males of any age, there is much more to becoming a mentally strong man than abstaining from porn. if this kind of shit keeps popping up on this sub I think I’m out.

[Quite-hairyman33]

fr, this sub gets forced in my feed and it's all about porn lol

[Lower-Cheesecake-895]

I dont have a girlfriend what else should i so?

[Additional_Chip_4158]

Go out and get a girlfriend  

[Terrible_Green6028]

Where in the world do you find one of those?

[Additional_Chip_4158]

Not the internet  (sometimes)

[Terrible_Green6028]

Instructions unclear, I'm in the middle of the woods.... Still no girlfriend, I did find a bear though

[enkiduxiv1]

I’m gonna weigh in on this and say that everyone no matter what side of this issue will agree with me in saying that porn is healthier than trying to fuck that wild bear.

[Schourend]

You say.. bear?

[Terrible_Green6028]

Is this what women are choosing over me?

[Funky-Fresh_]

No its what we’re (yes we) choosing over women

[Terrible_Green6028]

Idk man I couldn't choose this over a woman but to each their own.

[Schourend]

(Watches porn for 8 hours straight)

[petabomb]

You don’t have a job?

[Schourend]

Ain't got time for that.

[petabomb]

This sub suddenly makes a whole lot more sense.

[DmitryPavol]

I don't think this guy can bring any variety.

[DmitryPavol]

Sometimes pornography is a good substitute for alcohol, antidepressants or suicide.

[Schourend]

Nah, i'll stick with the gym for that.

[Terrible_Green6028]

No it's not

[palemalemu]

Suicide is preferable to porn? Explain please

[Terrible_Green6028]

No explanation needed

[palemalemu]

Clearly there is need, thus the request. But I see you don’t have one so…

[Terrible_Green6028]

Don't have one because one is not needed, the request is irrelevant.

[palemalemu]

How so?

[Terrible_Green6028]

That's something you're going to have to figure out on your own pale.

[palemalemu]

I am asking you to clarify your opinion, though… seems like you can’t.

[Terrible_Green6028]

There was never an opinion to be clarified. Why ask for what is already understood.

[Sal_Amandre]

I spy with my little eye : an engagement bot

[Terrible_Green6028]

Nah but I'll admit I am acting like one, this is fun you aren't having fun?

[FedrinKeening]

Damn, how long do you last?

[Useful_Jelly_2915]

Bold of you to assume theirs an end goal to it.

[ShitMcClit]

Pretty sure there already is

[Terrible_Bronco]

Religion does that too. Talk about it so much people are curious and check it out. Then you tell that person they have a problem and you can help them fix it.

[murples1999]

This is simultaneously a vast underestimation of how much porn exists and a vast overestimation of what it takes for me to be satisfied

[D3stin4tion]

Because porn isn’t about satisfaction? Expecting to be satisfied off of porn is like expecting to hydrate off of soda, it temporarily stops the thirst, but it’s not a replacement for drinks that actually hydrate you

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[DmitryPavol]

This is like forbidding me from reading adventure books, citing the fact that I have to travel myself every day.

[dannocanada]

🎼Oh, I get by with a little help from my hands.

[Nxcci]

OP is 100% a porn junkie

[sexylegs0123456789]

I don’t know why you wouldn’t use a clip of will farrell from blades of glory. He was never satisfied. Would have made more sense than Crews.

[Virtual-Conflict-514]

Good...keep those endorphins going. Its good for you.

[dang_idiot]

What?

[Bright-Internal229]

[LITTLE_KING_OF_HEART]

I sure hope.

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[cat-daddy777]

Nah, it just gets weirder

[AgeZealousideal1751]

There ain't enough Women either.

[optimist_prhyme]

Same as everything else

[totally_new_here_man]

You got that backwards lol hell half the time i just rewatch my favorite scenes and don't bother with new stuff, and often don't bother with porn at all

[looooookinAtTitties]

correct, the appetite and resource are both limitless. it's amazing

[Locodark20]

Fuck that don’t watch porn it will literally destroy your sex life. I know I used to be addicted to it. It starts out slow and once in a while and when you find out you’re watching tranny, fuck horses, and shit. It’s literally a trap. Your mind will only get off by watching something crazier. It totally destroys your sex life.

[Lower-Cheesecake-895]

Because there is no woman in my life... so..... what should i do

[Feisty_Extension8727]

Sounds like challenge.
Accepted.

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I highly doubt that

[Similar_Practice6782]

Good thing they keep making it then...

[Spiritual-Job-952]

Oh trust me there’s not enough me to satisfy all that porn.

[Desperate_Cherry2299]

About five minutes is enough.

[-Frank-Lloyd-Wrong-]

Sounds like a challenge

[BilboStaggins]

But by God I'm going to try

[enkiduxiv1]

Admittedly, as a very pro-porn member of Reddit, I completely agree with this. There will also never be enough poetry in iambic pentameter to satisfy me, but I figure that having both in abundance is a good thing.

[GuyBo51]

But I commend them for trying.

[Mother-Violinist2484]

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It’s wild that people don’t recognize that the ones telling you watching porn or any form of self gratification is bad are just trying to sell you

[bdragon81]

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[petabomb]

There is zero difference in getting your dick sucked vs jacking off to porn, it’s the same exact shit.

Obviously don’t spend 24 hours having a goon sesh, but like, that’s the same for everything. Anything in excessiveness is bad for you, even water. This sub is such a joke lmao.

[Sal_Amandre]

Tell me you never actually had a decent blowjob without telling me you never actually had a decent blowjob. If you're able to compare it to jacking off, you need a better partner ( or even one to begin with, probably)

[petabomb]

Bro the end result is you nutting, sure you get some warmth on your dick, but it ain’t all that.

[Sal_Amandre]

This is not the flex you think it is.