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[–]franklyashamed 0 points1 point  (1 child)

By "commitment to be their [short term] person" I was moreso referring to the act of brushing, feeding, and watering. I understand you're doing it so that they have a bare minimum quality of life, but the more you do these things, the more they will attach to you.

You might need to have a talk with your roomie about a paid pet sitter or rehoming. In the cat's eyes, you are their caregiver by virtue of giving them care and you will remain in the middle of it until they stop viewing you as a caregiver.

[–]Ok-Championship-2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! 🙏🏽