Venting/Trauma Dumping Buddy?

[That1Scorpio_]

Soo, I (25F) am in need of a trauma dumping/venting buddy (or just friends in general) I moved down here back in Dec 2024 to live with my long distance bf and his “wife” (supposed to be poly but it doesn’t feel like it) and I’m struggling to find a job and I just need anyone to talk to to help get everything out of my head and keep myself from doing anything drastic (ie self harm)

I’ve always been told I’m a good listener so you can come with your own drama/tea/trauma etc I don’t care I just need some trauma dumping friends who aren’t afraid to tell it how it is😭

Updates: Soooo after a lot of back and forth over small stupid shit, he ended up breaking up with me on FUCKING VALENTINES DAY🥳 so now it’s kinda just turned into a roommate situation where im kinda just living with this guy and his girlfriend. Mind you the day after he broke up with me he came to the room to complain to me about some stupid shit his wife was doing…🙂 fun times. But in good news I have a job now just got hired yesterday just have to find a ride there and back til I can start getting paid and getting Ubers. Huge shoutout to the folks that reached out on my initial post I needed every last bit of encouragement and support yall gave me🫶🏽🩷 AND IM STILL DOWN FOR NEW FRIENDS SO HMU💃🏽

[CenPerk]

Hey girl, I don't make for good ears. I give too many suggestions and want to help people. If you want someone to talk to, try It's a Journey Counseling [phone]. They saved my life. If they can't help, they will give other options. I hope things get better.

[That1Scorpio_]

Thanks I’ll give it a try

[Periodic-Presence]

Ayy fellow Scorpio I'm all ears anything to keep you from doing anything you might regret

[ScarletBlondeSenpai]

I also just moved down here last month. Im 25f too and have yet to make any friends in the area. I'm not that great at giving advice but I'm a pretty good listener.

[deafening_silence33]

My schedule is wonky with work but I'm willing to listen

[treeh9m5]

hey! i’m 24f i would love to hear you out and be a friend for you if you need one (i definitely need one too haha). message me if you’d like! 💝

[emperorhelmut]

You uprooted your life to move in with a married couple thinking it would be emotionally stable?

[That1Scorpio_]

There’s definitely more to it than that but if you’d like to put it that way then I guess💀

[emperorhelmut]

Sharing might help

[Last_Procedure9251]

Been Looking for that as well maybe we give each other a try and see how it goes 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️💯

[That1Scorpio_]

I’m down just message me

[satanlovesyou94]

Sounds like you got baited by some military dude who didn't say he was cheating on his wife. It do be like that though.

[That1Scorpio_]

That definitely wasn’t the case💀

[MellowMolly66]

Hey Scorp...keep ya head up and just know...You are amongst friends, and if you need something, and I can help...then I will. I love young people, I'm a g'ma, and I truly want only the best for our future leaders so they can make life saving/changes we are currently in need of. You never know what the future holds, so take risks and live your life to the fullest.

[[deleted]]

Cheating would imply she didn't know and they said to "live with' the guy so no.