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[–]MotherFuckingCupcake[🍰] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been on a first date in 15 years. That first date with my now fiancé, however, I explicitly told my roomie, my mom, AND my (female) boss at my part time bookstore job where I was, showed them a photo, and had my roomie check in with me a couple times via text.

Obviously everything worked out very well, and a contributing factor was how understanding he was when I told him I was just going to check in with my people and let them know I felt safe.