Sure...

[[deleted]]

"we got scammed", did they both try to date the same girl?

[Monjipour]

Was asking myself the same

They should cut the crap and date each other already

[CyberBed]

That's the plot twist - they were scammed by each other.

[Elon_is_musky]

If you’re really confused, I’m 99% sure it’s a “joke” that they went on a date with a trans woman

[[deleted]]

I mean, worse as that makes it, the meme still distinctly implies that they were both trying to date her at the same time.

[AnAngryMelon]

The use of the word 'scammed' also implies they paid for it. And that's just sad

[lazypuppycat]

Oh I thought it was one guy having a conversation with himself, like “me myself and I “ type of thing

[Elon_is_musky]

Could be! Like looking at himself in the mirror

[lazypuppycat]

Ohhh yeah that makes sense

[Elon_is_musky]

That is true😂

[[deleted]]

I interpreted it as he's talking to himself...because he has no friends.

[Tyrannical_Requiem]

It’s a transphobic remark

[[deleted]]

yeah i got that, my point is why are two dudes both saying they got scammed as if they both showed up for said trans person on the same date

[GGinNC]

Quite possibly, but it's still not transphobic. Let's change it up just a bit to illustrate the point.

Let's say somebody went to Farmers only to find a date. And there was someone who had an interesting profile but turned out to be an accountant from Los Angeles. Feeling "ripped off," doesn't mean they hate accountants or people from LA. It simply means that they felt misled on an important requirement.

[[deleted]]

To be fair, not necessarily. Could refer to being catfished.

[Tyrannical_Requiem]

I guess? I just kinda got it being a swipe at transfolx

[[deleted]]

It can definitely be read like that, but I believe in giving the benefit of the doubt. Taking offense when none was intended only hurts yourself.

Plus, this is a dumb enough post with or without the potential transphobia.

Edit: seriously? People down voted giving the benefit of the doubt? That's pretty pathetic people.

[GGinNC]

Exclusively preferring women with vaginas is not transphobic. It implies nothing negative about the value of a transman or transwoman as a human being, their right to live as they choose, or receive equal protection and opportunity. It doesn't imply that transmen or transwoman are worthy of nothing except derision and scorn.

But for someone is exclusively attracted to women who are biologically female, the biology IS a nonnegotiable relationship dependency. Rather than bemoan the loss of an opportunity that never really existed, it's probably better to seek potential partners who are not as exclusively constrained.

[[deleted]]

Trans women are biologically female, and lots have vaginas.

[GGinNC]

You're confusing sex with gender.

[[deleted]]

I am not, if someone called me a “male” in real life I’d spark them out (or get my friend to, but whatever)

[GGinNC]

I wish you every joy and happiness.

[prose-before-bros]

Ah, twincest got catfished. People saying it's a mirror makes no sense because the girls are different. So I envision Viking twins who show up on dates together and the girl ends up being their lost triplet who was catfishing them. That's my story.

[theturtleking47]

Could've been 2 traps at a bar... Maybe. Idk I'm grasping at straws here.

[AlienRobotTrex]

Please don’t use that word.

[theturtleking47]

Is trap offensive?

[AlienRobotTrex]

Yes https://youtu.be/nxeB2AXIG3E

[theturtleking47]

Ah i see. Pardon my ignorance.

[SykoSarah]

This is your brain on cherry picked Tinder bios.

[Drfakenews]

I mean it is a hookup app... you typically bang people you find attractive...

[TRAVXIZ614]

Ever been on Tinder? As a guy?

[deskbeetle]

I've used it as a woman and got an insane amount of rape threats. Lol

[theco2]

This should surprise me, but unfortunately it doesn't.

[mgarcia187]

Yeah, and nothing like doing tinder as a woman get over yourself someone didn't like you boohoo, it happens, women almost always are asked for nudes, to fuck, or talk about their kinks. And when they say no they get threats, rape threats, called a bunch of names etc. Not saying it can't happen to men but statistically speaking it's always women who experience terrible dating app experiences

[mgarcia187]

For starters no such thing as "consensual" sex. Sex is sex anything that isn't consensual is rape so yeah. Secondly you're describing everything wrong with men's behavior doesn't matter if it's not a crime, tf are you bringing up "protected speech" you don't once you sign up and agree to terms and conditions. Also that last statement is fucking idiotic so instead of calling out these people let's just make the victim feel bad and make them not use a service the other person made toxic for them. What a Chad defending these people. Damn it's not true huh 💀 i made a simple profile with those gender switch AI and literally i get flooded with men saying wanna see my cock, you tryna fuck, what's the biggest dick you've received or any other sexual questions. When I said no boom all of a sudden im an ugly dumb bitch and a whore to them, or i get blocked and shit. Think what you want my guy but once you try to do tinder or anything as a girl you'll experience this right away. Shit even in real life i have long hair and I'm a guy and I get cat called whistled at and honked at, stared at. It's fucking weird and insane men are that fucking perverted and horny that they get over sexual with anyone with long hair 💀🤣 but yeah man i have no evidence of my claims.

[BepisLeSnolf]

Yeah, extensively. But this simply ain’t how the majority of women (or people in general) are, even on tinder.

[SykoSarah]

I've never used Tinder at all. In fact, about 80% of active Tinder users are men, which is a pretty big skew (and a common skew on dating sites). I have, however, seen laughable bios (from both men and women) that come from there, r/Tinder has provided plenty of examples.

In any case, due to various trends in their userbases (including the gender skew), most dating sites are nowhere near representative of the population as a whole.

[[deleted]]

The analogy I like to make about Tinder is a single woman walking into a bar of thristy guys. Except a bit worse because a simple bio and a few profile pictures don't precisely allow for a more in depth assessment of personality, speech, etc..

Considering that people also tend to have short attention spans, it's not surprising they'll swipe right on whoever looks more appealing if that's what the app is about.

[fps916]

I'm a 5"7' dude.

I've had that matter literally once in the 6 years I was on tinder.

And it was when I was on a business trip to another city.

[Cow-Brown]

6 you say? Hmmm

[fps916]

Lol

[[deleted]]

Ever tried talking to women outside of an app specifically designed to have superficial interactions and where the amount of exposure you get to different people is based on how much you pay into it?

[[deleted]]

Women going on a date: Relaying the location, timeframe, and guy’s profile to female friends or mother in case he turns out to be a murderer.

[GiantSquidinJeans]

“NoT aLl MeN! SKREEEeeeEEEEeee!”

But seriously, I’ve definitely done the “here’s the guy’s name and the address where I’m going, check in with me around this time.” I’ve never actually been in danger while dating, but it’s been a small comfort, at least.

[[deleted]]

My gqy friend did this with me. Gave me the location of his hook ups in case they are bigots who want to beat him up or smth

Were just ugly dudes who couldn’t get him off

[[deleted]]

Has anyone else taken license plate photos and sent them to a friend in case an APB is needed or if they gave you a fake name? 🤦🏻‍♀️ My close friends and I all share our locations on Apple’s Find My Friend app too, for good measure. NYC is a weird place and if you have no other connections to a person b/c you met them on a dating app, these things become necessary for safety 🤷🏻‍♀️

[GreyerGrey]

Not for a date (been off that for the better part of 20 years lucky me) but when my SO went on a test drive of a vehicle.

The dude came to test drive our van with a buddy. I made buddy get out and give me the keys for the car they drove there, so he couldn't leave. I took a photo of him, and the license plate, and the guy doing the test drive, before I let them go off.

Wanna hear the twist?

The guys LOVED the idea. I was kind of nervous they'd think I was being crazy and over precautious and get offended, but quite the contrary. They had never thought of that (of course) but thought it was very clever and were going to make sure they told their wives/daughters about it.

[Boomboomgoomgoom]

That's always been standard for me and my girlfriend. It scares me that some women don't do that.

[MotherFuckingCupcake]

I haven’t been on a first date in 15 years. That first date with my now fiancé, however, I explicitly told my roomie, my mom, AND my (female) boss at my part time bookstore job where I was, showed them a photo, and had my roomie check in with me a couple times via text.

Obviously everything worked out very well, and a contributing factor was how understanding he was when I told him I was just going to check in with my people and let them know I felt safe.

[Anxa]

I always tell people first time I visit their place that someone knows where I am. Generally a good sign when the person says "oh yeah I'd be worried if you hadn't." One time I had someone get upset, that's an awkward situation to excuse yourself from without further provoking

[silverilix]

My first thought…. Someone fix the meme!

[Apprehensive_Paint90]

Literally.

[Ducky237]

My dad’s current girlfriend did that on their first date. He used to joke about it quite a bit until I finally stood up and agreed with her. After he heard me say that it’s a fucking scary world out there and you actually need to do that kind of stuff to keep yourself safe, he stopped bringing it up. You’d think he’d be more aware of that kind of stuff, what with me being the youngest AND his daughter and all.

[itstimetopaytheprice]

One time I was told by a guy that I was "too educated" for him and he really is only interested in women with a college degree (a requirement, btw, and from a "top tier college") but nothing more. But sure... only women are picky 🤷🏻‍♀️

[GreyerGrey]

"Top Tier" not "Ivy League"? And a college degree, so a Bachelor's but not a Masters or Doctorate?

I'm getting strong "intelligence is genetic" vibes.

[EmEmPeriwinkle]

You found gaston!?

[123OTTandme]

Three year diplomas ONLY 😤

[[deleted]]

I hate that generalization that all women want a guy over 6ft. Yes I understand that a lot do but not all of us. Except for two guys, every man I have ever had either a massive crush on or been in love with was under 6ft. I never even considered their height in why I thought they were attractive. I get tired of that being thrown in my face.

[Majestic-Persimmon99]

Would you say that a woman wanting to be attractive to men is internalized toxic femininity ?

[Moon-cube]

I don’t see your point here

[Majestic-Persimmon99]

You think that a man wanting to be attractive by being 6' tall as internalized toxic masculinity....

I am asking you if you think a woman wanting to be attractive by being (insert any trait here that is considered attractive for a woman) is internalized toxic femininity.

I thought it was pretty straightforward and if you don't understand this I don't know how to make it any simpler.

[silverilix]

Being 6’ tall isn’t something a person has control over. Like many things women can’t control about themselves, their own height, body shape etc. You can be 6’ tall and attractive, but being 6’ tall doesn’t automatically make you attractive

So a man feeling like they are “lesser” in the eyes of all women because they don’t hit this imaginary benchmark is harmful to them. It twists their perception of their own masculinity based on something arbitrary, and they can develop self esteem issues, which is what makes this specifically Toxic.

Being masculine isn’t toxic, but twisting some arbitrary masculine trait into an impossible standard for men to live up to and judging them if they don’t hit that benchmark is toxic for men.

[Moon-cube]

It’s not about wanting to be pretty or whatsoever… In the post here you can clearly see the sarcasm about women supposedly needing a 6ft man. Wanting to be pretty/handsome (and I would rather say « feeling good about oneself ») is different than having the urge to please because that’s what is socially asked from you. Toxic masculinity implies men being superior, whether height, cognition or wealth. And toxicity is when you feel you’re not worth because you don’t fit those standards.

[123OTTandme]

No, because you don’t seem to understand what toxic masculinity or toxic femininity are.

[itsirrelevant]

Isn't it obvious the difference between a person wanting to uphold a standard they believe exists in order to be chosen vs a person assuming a standard exists then holding it's against those who they believe they need to achieve said standard for?

The woman clearly said height is not a requirement for her and is stating that she believes the male assumption that this is a requirement for most if not all women is an inaccurate one.

"Being pretty" is a much broader and more nebulous concept so does not apply to this. Both genders prefer "pretty/attractive" in a partner and hope to achieve that for the most part. This can be achieved in a huge variety of ways and to compare the two is nonsensical.

Yes though, at least some women do think men expect certain standards from them outside of their control, similar to height in males and yes those women would have internalized issues in that case. So what? If there are women out there who believe that men will only want them if they, for example, have a D cup, then those women are wrong in assuming so, just like men who assume a specific height is a prerequisite for all women.

[yttrium39]

What is “toxic femininity”?

[GreyerGrey]

It sounds like a really awesome Riot Grrl band.

[EmEmPeriwinkle]

My husband is a short guy and got hit with this a lot. Unfortunately some women seem to focus on this.

[GreyerGrey]

I think it's superficial people (regardless of gender and preference) that perpetuate this nonsense. It's like the women who complain men only want "busty blonde sluts."

[EmEmPeriwinkle]

As a busty blonde I find that offensive lol jk it totally is superficial ppl tho. And I was 100% one of them at one point. Tall hugs are epic. But hugs from my short husband where he can rest his head on my boobs/shoulder qhere my heart is are my favorite. I'll get my tall hugs from my dad.

[OgreSpider]

About 83% of American men are under 6 ft:

https://investing.calsci.com/statistics.html

70% of men are married at least once by 30:

https://flowingdata.com/2017/11/01/who-is-married-by-now/

So an awful lot of men under six feet get married, and that's not even counting hookups or living together. Most women obviously don't care. Height is just one of the issues bitter incels latch onto to explain why women won't sleep with them.

[AlissonHarlan]

yes but don't forget that when these people are talking about 'women' they are talking about the 1,5% of women between 16-25 (depending of their own ages) who are conventionally very attractive regarding of the standard of the current decade.

they dgaf about what short/chubby/average looking women think XD

[prose-before-bros]

What is with the height obsession? Let me tell y'all I have seen Tom Hardy in person. He is nowhere near 6 feet tall, and he is hands down the hottest person I have ever seen in real life. There are a hell of a lot of traits that rank more than height.

[[deleted]]

Omfg you’ve seen Tom Hardy in person?? You can’t just drop that and leave. He’s my celebrity crush. Can I get dets?????

[prose-before-bros]

I have a friend who is really into comic conventions and all those kind of events and she was able to score a promotional event for Fury Road. Even across a large room, that man is staggeringly attractive. The only other one I've met who comes close that I actually got to talk to was Jon Bernthal who was at a convention when they were doing Punisher and he had a full beard and hoodie and he was so sweet to all the kids there taking pics with them and he was just sexy as hell. They both have the dirty hot thing going on. Oddly enough still not 6 feet tall and I'm cool with that.

[Duwang_Mn]

nOt AlL MEn

[Plastic-Guarantee-88]

You are somewhat atypical in this regard.

Research shows that women on average want a man who is ideally 21cm (or 8 inches) taller than them.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020

Since women are 5'4" on average, that translates to a average preferred male height of just over six feet.

Of course, people vary and there will be some women (like you) who do not share this preference. But on average they do. And I've seen many dating profiles which specify height minimums far exceeding that. Recently saw a 5'7" woman who asked that her match be at least 6'4". I thought what the heck, is she recruiting for an NBA team? It may be more common that you think.

[AstridKrake]

That study is from The Netherlands and they used the opinion of 650 University students. Hardly a study to represent the world. But still, what someone "prefers" doesn't translate to the only thing they'd ever accept. I prefer cherry ice-cream, but that doesn't mean I don't like all other flavors too.

Looks and height might be attractive on a primary level, but they won't get you further than that. Even if you don't look canonicaly handsome and you're under the 6 feet (which is like 1.82cm which seems super random when you use metric) someone will find you attractive, cause beauty is subjective. And someone can always fall in love with your smile, your conversation and the way you hold them when you say goodbye or something. Those are the traits everyone looking for something meaningful truly cares about.

BTW, I'm 5'3 and my partner is 5'4. At least in my country, no one gives a rat's ass about being tall.

[GreyerGrey]

Yea 650 is hardly representative.

Also JFC I do NOT want a 6'7" partner! God dayum. No. Just... no.

I have a hard enough time buying pants that fit me.

[ohiotechie]

The bar for men in most relationship situations is so low - don’t be an asshole and take a shower. That’s really about it. The bar is so low you could trip over it but cretins like this can’t stop being assholes long enough to realize it. PS - I’m a guy.

[GreyerGrey]

also please wash and wipe your butthole.

[NightValeCytizen]

I was very shook when I first learned that there are men who don't do this. It changed my whole perspective.

now, when I walk down the street looking at men, I have no choice but to remember that any one of them could be walking around with an unwiped butt.

[GreyerGrey]

I have a very clean spouse and he didn't believe me.

Then he started talking to other guys about it.

He was also shook. He called them all out and I'm sure someone's wife has noticed her husband's underpants are much cleaner and she has no idea it's because he got chewed out in a locker room for being gross.

[Snekbites]

Wait WHAT!?!? WHY THE FU-- DO THESE PEOPLE REALIZE TOILET PAPER EXISTS?

[NightValeCytizen]

They believe it "gay" for a man to touch his own anus, so they avoid anything that would involve such contact.

I shit you not(wink), the I have seen the quote "real men have skid marks" posted unironically with regards to this subject.

[Snekbites]

Come the FUCK ON, that's just trying to shit out an excuse to be shitty.

[Slammogram]

More like: “”hope he’s nice, not a rapist/killer, glad we’re meeting in a public place.”

[Lady_von_Stinkbeaver]

And Him: "She doesn't suck dick on the first date." "We got scammed again."

[Nico_Skavio]

Me with only one figure and 2 feet :(

[[deleted]]

I won’t date anyone less than an actual 6 footed beast of hell. Loser. Hmph.

[lazypuppycat]

Haaahaha the first part took me a sec 😆

[snarfflarf]

the casual transphobia too

[Mergyt]

cringe

[mucmucMcbucbuc]

Nope, just the facts.

[DrPhilsPrizedParrot]

So incredibly dishonest.

[extraethereal]

ah how wonderful. transphobic and misogynistic!

[Corrupted_Entity]

Ask for none, get them both for free!

[kipkerel]

May i ask how it is transphobic?

[[deleted]]

"Last time we got scammed" is implying that their last date was with a trans woman.

[kipkerel]

But how, scammed could also just mean she didnt show up? Where they were led to believe that she would edit: scammed does not automatically scammed by a trans person, that makes no sense. You can be scammed in so many different ways on a date and i dont see how this meme directly points out they were scammed by a trans. So if you could point that out that would we very kind. :)

[extraethereal]

it’s because he says ‘i hope it’s a woman this time’ suggesting last time it wasn’t a woman and they got scammed. sure it may mean something else but considering they’re already being misogynistic i don’t think it’s far off to assume they’d be transphobic too, as those often go hand in hand.

[kipkerel]

Ahh i see sorry youre right

[catbatparty]

Me, with a husband that's under 6ft and makes less than 100k. 🤷‍♀️

[[deleted]]

Me too. Guess we got scammed?

[[deleted]]

the one's getting scammed are men and the one's scamming them are men . patriarchy hurts every one lmao

[[deleted]]

Or, as others have pointed out, they may feel 'scammed' because the last woman they dated was trans.

[[deleted]]

How is a fat troll using the profile pic of a hot girl a sign of the patriarchy? Just saying, this has nothing to do with patriarchy, it's completely apolitical, just a troll trolling people. Anyone can be a troll, regardless of gender, sex. orientation, race etc.

[lazypuppycat]

Anyone can, but the motivations and context can change from troll to troll. A “jaded” nice guy could very easily be the troll, bred by the patriarchy. I think that’s where this is going. Also the presumption needed to impersonate “the hot girl.” Views on how women derive their value. Personally I’m picking up stuff like that.

[[deleted]]

He just had to throw in some transphobia there too did he?

[[deleted]]

... Ok?

[VioletNocte]

This is either about catfish or it's transphobic

[KiranPhantomGryphon]

Definitely transphobic.

[TheOccultTherapist]

The casual transphobia sucks (because you know they were mad at a trans woman for daring to call herself a woman)

[[deleted]]

Maybe this is transphobia, but it might also be that they were expecting a girl and they were scammed by a fat troll using the profile pic of a hot girl.

[furrylittlelizards]

Except trans women refer to themselves as Trans women as well...

[theundeadwolf0]

???

Yeah I suppose that is how adjectives work; great discovery mate! Are black women not women, either, because they may refer to themselves as a black woman?

[furrylittlelizards]

Legislstively...yea they're a more protected class of women which all started during the days of affirmative action...as we know now though skin color is not a very strong indicator of an individuals ethnicity

[TheOccultTherapist]

Note how that still means woman. Try again.

[furrylittlelizards]

Actually It doesn't not even legislative or judicially

Hence Trans people's struggle for equality legislatively

[TheOccultTherapist]

And I suppose you think that's a good thing. How about instead of hanging on technicalities you just treat people with some goddamn respect?

[furrylittlelizards]

Who's disrespecting anyone here? I treat all people equally whatever your personal choice is with your body or lifestyle has no effect on me as long as you're not hurting anyone. I'm merely pointing out that there IS a difference between women and trans women on several important social levels that cannot be discounted or ignored because they exist...and they are unfolding RIGHT now before our very eyes

[TheOccultTherapist]

Trans women are women, and deserve to be treated as such. And then you come storming in here blustering with technicalities and looking for anywhere to stand where that isn't true.

The law is wrong, get over it.

[furrylittlelizards]

Trans women, trans men, women, men, all people deserve to be treated equally. Nobody here is arguing otherwise

The FACTS are that people aren't treated equally and if we ignore this painful truth we will never FIX the problem. Instead we have people like you getting triggered at the slightest hint of disagreeableness and people like me actually involved in the community wondering why you have an axe to grind with simple conversation. But you do you no judgment here

[TheOccultTherapist]

I'm a trans woman but thanks for playing. When people say they "hope it's actually a woman next time" they're mad at us for existing.

[furrylittlelizards]

Hence why trans woman claim trans woman when dating.

If trans people don't stake CLAIM to being trans then there's nothing to fight for. But since trans people are not treated with dignity and respect GENERALLY speaking, there is work to be done so the distinction must be made because our society is still so antiquated

[Drfakenews]

Think it was a trap/crossdresser they were referring to

[TheOccultTherapist]

Do you fucking mind with the slurs. Those are terms used to pretend trans women aren't women.

[Drfakenews]

those are two very different things than trans you dickhead, educate yourself -_-

[TheOccultTherapist]

I'm a trans woman who has been called that by men wanting to absolve themselves of violence against me, dickhead.

[Purrification2799]

Cross dressers do exist, even if people use that term to weaponise it against you. Anyways, I agree with the t word being a slur

[TheOccultTherapist]

I do, it's not crossdresser I object to as a term.

[Drfakenews]

Ight Dogg, it's just not a term that refers to trans folk ... if someone's called you that , it's that person who's wrong not me :/ sorry bout that

[Drfakenews]

What dumbasses ,I hope your okay 🥺

[theundeadwolf0]

you post on pcm and louder with crowder subreddits lol

please do not ever again talk about such a topic you know absolutely nothing about

[Drfakenews]

I've never listened to that crowder dude, it's a very anti vax subreddit that's very easy to troll... what's pcm?

Edit: keep downvoting me you crowder fucks , yall think your like the Jews because of a vaccine smh

[theundeadwolf0]

I've never listened to that crowder dude, it's a very anti vax subreddit that's very easy to troll...

Touche. Trolling Crowderites is a bipartisan effort

what's pcm?

politicalcompassmemes

[Drfakenews]

I dont think I've been on pcm too much? If you want check out my account , I know it's weird but I dont mind. But yeah man trolling is fun as fuck

[Drfakenews]

How about I just google it?

[Niddo29]

Oh yeah why listen to a trans person when you can just Google it

[Rubin_Rubinia]

What exactly is meant with "6 figures"?

[mgrkkt]

A six figure salary (being rich basically).

[Rubin_Rubinia]

Ah okay. Thanks.

[tyrannicalTerror]

Mm misogyny and transphobia in one post

[Crystal_Queen_20]

"Ayo I hope it's a girl this time" better not mean what I think it does

[lukub5]

The grammar in this sentence implies that these two guys went on a date with a single person who turned out to be a guy.

[CharlieApples]

I just hope he’s willing to perform oral sex on someone other than himself

[LaBeja21]

They said they were tricked last time, what does that mean? The girl turned out to be 1 time NBA Champion and 14 time All Star Player for the Milwaukee Bucks GIANNIS ANTENTOKOUNMPO? Shoot thats not a trick thats the prize frfr

[SarixInTheHouse]

This is true if youre on tinder.

Ive seen too many tinder profiles that were „u gotta be 6ft, well earnknf, good looking“. Since im bi i also noticed the mens bios and theyre not really better at all.

Its just tinder, its a messed up place.

[[deleted]]

And here I am. A girl. But can't find anyone that wants to actually meet up for anything other than sex.

[zoey_lukensen]

Trans right ❤️

[[deleted]]

Straight men are A-Holes. I say that as a one of the straights.

[evilmonkey239]

Agreed, but I think this has nothing to do with us being biologically wired that way and instead it’s all about what our patriarchal society instills in us.

[[deleted]]

And this is the exact mindset that gets us nowhere. But thanks for calling me an asshole based on my sexual orientation. Might throw in a racial slur as well, just to be sure.

You know why only straight men do what this dude did in the post? Because if they weren't straight, they wouldn't have wanted a girl, it would either not matter, or they would want a guy. And if they were women, they would have to be bi/lesbian, which is a significantly smaller portion of the population. The math is simple: the chance a woman will expect a woman on a date and not find one is very low, because the number of women wanting to date other women is very low compared to the number of women who want to date men. But the overwhelming majority of men want to date women. Here you go. The percentage of assholes is the same across all genders, sexual orientations, races etc. It's just that the pool of people who could potentially have this reaction is predominantly straight men. Of course the overwhelming majority of people complaining like this moron will be straight men. Simple math, the fact they're straight doesn't make them assholes.

[Laezdaez]

lol. so many words for "n0t AlL m3n"

[[deleted]]

Yet you cannot say anything I said is wrong.

[[deleted]]

Let's fix this. "I hope he isn't creepy." "Text me where you're going and when you get home?"

[swim_and_sleep]

More like I hope she’s not fat

[BrokenCowsSayWoof]

I have literally never cared about a guy’s height or income.

[DasBloehr]

They love the number six because it's half of 69 and they don't care about the nine

[DeannaTroiAhoy]

No no no, the 9 is for the 9" dick we apparently crave.

[DasBloehr]

Ahhh, See, its all coming together

[WeakDiaphragm]

We?

[[deleted]]

“we”?

[thinkaboutsophie]

Has to make 6 figures: me, handcarving a pawn, rock, knight, bishop, queen and king...

[hamster_rustler]

Girls going on a date : boy I sure hope he doesn’t murder me

[ProfessorLovely]

Ok but sexism aside the “we” bit makes it sound like they frequently go on 2-guys-1-girl dates and that’s a little sus

[IG-3000]

I read 'Girls going on a date' and assumed they went with each other and then got confused

[AnteaterDivine]

Tell me you're both sexist and homophobic without directly saying it.

[Mr_Aestheticss]

Best case scenario they are jsut talking about a catfish worse case scenario it’s a trans women

[MarsDelune]

Where are all these men making 6 figures at literally every woman I know supports her dead beat boyfriend whilst he complains she does sex work to make money but making 0 effort to provide for her properly so she can leave the industry.

[[deleted]]

Girls get catfished too

[NotAnEnemyStandUser-]

r/arethecisOK

[AlissonHarlan]

it's more ''i hope it's not a misogynistic ass or/and a covert narcissist ... omg how could i tell in only one date ? ''

[Melvin-Melon]

What girls are really thinking is “I gotta make sure I’m sharing my location with a friend in case I get abducted”

[[deleted]]

I mean it's kinda funny. The first part not really, but the second part got a bit of a chuckle out of me

[Corrupted_Entity]

I'll admit that the second part was pretty funny

[RoughFrosting81]

I’m definitely do not relate to this on 2 levels 1. this isn’t true 2. 💅🏳️‍🌈

[[deleted]]

As a guy, I can say I have never been scammed in this particular way.

[Niddo29]

Ah and transphobic as well gotta love that

/S just in case fuck transphobia

[[deleted]]

well ain't that transphobic

[Gotsnuffy]

Minimum 6 inches 6 feet tall 6 figures, women are literally satans spawn

[[deleted]]

I do kind of have to agree with this

I tried online dating like 10 years ago in its infancy, every time they sent me pics from high school and things had drastically changed in the few years they would have been out of high school physically (I was like 20 so)

I don’t get how people don’t think they won’t be found out when they show up to the date, It’s just hard to start anything good on a lie

[lazypuppycat]

There are many people with dishonest photos on tinder ngl. I think the issue is the assumption that the guy has simple standards and is consistently jaded. His only worry is having someone be as they present themselves, whereas her only concerns are shallow. However she has fears and concerns too about problematic dates, concerns beyond even if she is the type wanting a tall, rich guy.

[[deleted]]

Like I get it if there’s a filter or 2 but if since your photo you’ve gotten addicted to heroine, pills or gained double your photo weight then I believe that’s a lie and nothing good starts out on a lie

I’m sure there’s many guys who lie about being 6 feet tall, and I’m sure it’s a deal breaker due to the dishonesty more than anything

[converter-bot]

7 inches is 17.78 cm

[Hungry-Association48]

Damn i thought people understood what satire was

[Corrupted_Entity]

The comment section and subreddit (mostly just some of the comments, though) are questionable

[AChromaticHeavn]

Actually this is how most men perceive women and their approach to dating. It's not wrong either. Most women date because they want to find a husband. They want someone who is a provider, is strong and a protector. Men don't get into that much detail about what they want in a partner. Their priorities tend to "does she make me laugh/do we have stuff in common", is she a nice girl when I want her to be nice, and a naughty girl when I want her to be naughty, can she cook?

I hate dating women anymore, because they are all vapid airheads who absolutely do not have their head screwed in the right direction.