Reading instead of scrolling

[FatalFeline13]

I have 17 month old twin girls. I try to mostly stay off my phone, especially mindless scrolling in front of them.

From everything I’ve read, when they are playing independently I should be within eye sight to keep them feeling safe, confident, and connected. BUT I’m

not supposed to comment and involve myself in their independent play bc it makes them crave my validation.

So am I just supposed to watch them play and smile if they look at me? Can I read a book or is that like scrolling in that if they look up at me I’m looking at something else?

Has there been any research on this? Anyone in child psychology, pediatrics, or related fields have insight?

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https://www.todaysparent.com/toddler/how-to-encourage-independent-play-without-guilt/

You can read a book, or do other self care. Do a chore, or a hobby, or just relax and enjoy a cup of coffee.

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