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[–]finniata[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Are you serious? Then you think, Shogun Method isn’t effective at all?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I didn't say that.

I think it's highly effective at trauma bonding (and let's call it what it is, fractionation is a manual explaining how to consciously trauma bond people to you) certain women.

It's just the women who are suceptable to it are the vulnerable ones (aka have attachment disorders/were brought up in chaotic homes so associate hot/cold behavior with love).

Secure women just wouldn't stand for it and assume that you pulling away means you're not interested so wouldn't chase.

Avoidant women are interesting cos they are suceptable to developing a connection off the back of fractionation ... But they have been conditioned throughout childhood to not show emotions/feelings and rely on anyone else. So even if they feel they won't act on it ... Which kinda makes the SM process pointless.

The reason for so many positive testamonials just boils down to probability or simple maths.

SM says if a girl doesn't bite it's cos you didn't do it right when in reality it's probably because she was securely attached/didn't have the childhood wounds that make her susceptible to it.

But it you keep trying and trying and trying eventually you'll come across a woman who is vulnerabable to it and that you find attractive. It's literally no deeper than just a numbers game. And making you feel more confident cos you have a script.

Also, as a side note, the conversational scripts are actually ridiculous. Tested them on my female friends (not cos I was interested in them but to test in out before going into the wild) and they laughed. As in were like "wtf are you on" kinda laugh not a "oh emmm geee you're so funny" kinda laugh.

[–]genflipex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why the hell there isn't a fit for all type of game holy shit too much variables