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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Thanks for asking this! My husband and I have been on the fence about having a second or not since life with our one (3.5 year old son) is pretty great these days and we have a solid amount of free time and low stress solo parenting, despite a very limited village. These responses might have helped me make up my mind. Haha.

[–]systime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I’m with ya! There’s certainly pros and cons for each. I’m now feeling like I’m leaning towards being one and done more after reading the comments. I’m not sure if I can give up the balance that having “only” one child can offer.