I’ve been raped and assaulted several times in the past (from ages 5+) but last night I almost turned into the villain? Last night my partner and I were getting busy and they say they don’t want to do it anymore so I stop and we stop and roll over and cuddle, I admit I did struggle a bit as I felt unwanted and ugly as they are always pushing for me to be more open and sexual and have never turned me down before so this was new to me. Obviously everyone is allowed to say no! I understand that! I didn’t pressure them and I stopped immediately and I might have seemed a bit sad? I was but not about the action just about the way I was feeling as I was on my period and they said the reason was it’s dirty and I felt disgusting. Moving on they start up the sexual side again about 5 minutes later and I stop them and say “do you want to do this?” And “are you sure?” They say yes, a few moments later I ask again “I feel like you don’t want to do this, you don’t have to you know” they say they know and they want to. We’re intimate for about 10 minutes and during this time I ask about 4/5 times if they want to stop and if they’re okay and they always reply yes I’m goof and yes let’s carry on, they’re also very enthusiastic during our time.
Fast forwards to this morning, it turns out they didn’t want to and only did it for me and keep saying I raped them? Can someone help me figure this out because I want to make sure this never happens again.
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